"Some Churches"

I ran across this annonymous piece below entitled "some churches" in the journal, Homiletics. As we prayerfully head into 2007, I am so glad to be part of an authentic faith community that is alive and active despite the many imperfections and warts of her members. "Some Churches" require very little effort on the part of its people and fail miserably in creating, guarding and maintaining biblical community. Perhaps you have a friend or family member in a church like this. I know what that's like, it's a tough place to be. Pray for them and pray for their church to be healthy, alive and vibrant. Christ followers cannot afford to be critical of sister churches. We must bear with one another in love, pray for one another and encourage one another. We need each other if we are going to reach the culture for Christ in 2007. At Mosaic we regularly pray for churches in our area to have full parking lots, full seats/pews, overflowing offering plates and baptistries that are never empty. May it be so for our brothers and sisters who worship at any number of churches in our area! We pray God's best for you.

• Some churches have parking problems, some other churches don’t.
• Some churches have kids running around making a lot of noise, some other churches tend to be very quiet.
• Some churches usually have more expenses than money, some other churches don’t need to spend much money because not much is going on.
• Some churches are growing so fast you don’t always know everybody’s name, in some other churches everybody has known everybody’s name for years.
• Some churches enthusiastically and generously support missions, some other churches keep it all at home.
• Some churches are filled with tithers, some other churches are filled with tippers.
• Some churches evangelize, some other churches fossilize.
• Some churches are always planning for the future, some other churches live in the past.
• Some churches seek new ministries and new methods, some other churches don’t want to.

If you are active in some church, why don’t you take a moment and pray for it today.

• Some people pray for their church, and some others never quite get around to it.

—Source unknown.

Don't be a Scrooge!

(A Christmas Carol Photo from The Nebraska Theatre Caravan)

Many, many years ago I played the Ghost of Christmas Past in the musical version of Charles Dickens' classic, "A Christmas Carol". You remember the story. The old miserly, crabby Ebeneezer Scrooge is visited by three spirits/ghosts on Christmas Eve as foretold by the ghost of his deceased business partner, Jacob Marley. The rude, tight, critical and mean-spirited Scrooge was known for his trademark rebuke of Christmas, "Bah! Humbug!"

I remember the director stressing to me the importance of my character being jolly, festive, gregarious, and joyful as he led the frightened Scrooge through the joys of Christmas' long past. The mission of the first ghost was to wake up the cold-hearted Scrooge by showing him glimpses of his early years when he knew pure joy.

It was a hoot playing such a joyous character. You can imagine the fun I had despite my poor excuse for a British accent. My costume was colorful and everything about the character reeked of fun and celebration. As I draw on this 28-year old memory, I think we need this character's Christmas attitude now more than ever. People are so busy, the holiday pace is so hectic, the crowds, shopping and traffic are so stressful that we need some levity.

We need to be reminded that the intent and motive behind this season is the Good News of joy that brings peace to everyone. I love holding doors open, giving up prized front row parking spaces at the mall and smiling to sales clerks and those in the hospitality industry who are inundated this time of year with cranky, stressed-out customers. The reaction to sheer joy and cheer is mixed, but so rewarding. Some folks are just downright suspicious of why anyone could be so jolly, or courteous during the annual rat race leading up to Christmas Day. Now that's funny when you stop and think why most of them are out in the chaos----to secure a gift that will bring joy to someone they love! Who knew that the mission of bringing others joy would be so lacking in joy itself!

I know it's getting late and we're running out of days to purchase and wrap gifts. But let's not let the pursuit of joy deprive all of us of the very joy we seek. Let's remember the shepherd's who when they encountered the heavenly joy of the angels pronouncement responded in pure worship, putting the Christ-child first and leaving their fields. If we seek to put the Christ-child first in all we do in these closing days of Advent, we will indeed enjoy one of the best Christmas' ever. I hope you do! I'm going to try and lighten up the modern-day Scrooge's I encounter, one smile or gesture at a time.

Remember the Children of the Fallen

I saw a report today on NBC News about the number of American children who have lost a military parent serving in Iraq. Over 1,300 children will spend this Christmas without their fallen mother or father!

What do we say to these children? I don't think there are any appropriate words to say. "Thank-you", seems lacking and so far off the mark to say to a five or six-year old girl holding the U.S. flag from her mother's coffin. Sometimes words ring hollow no matter how sincere.

The picture above (from the Associated Press published in the San Diego Union-Tribune) was taken nearly three years ago (March 2004) at the funeral of 23-year old, Army Spc., Lori Piestwa, the first American service woman killed in Iraq. Her five-year old son, Brandon, and her four-year old daughter, Carla, carried flags at the beginning of her funeral procession. This will be their third Christmas without their mother.

Put your political views aside for a moment and just think what these 1,300+ kids have sacrificed. Whether you agree with the war or not, you cannot look them in the eye without wiping tears from your own. Every child ought to experience the love of a parent, especially at Christmas. Sadly, that's not the case for thousands of orphaned, abandoned, or abused children around the world. And it's not the case for these 1,300+ American children.

While words of sympathy for these children seem somewhat empty, there is something we can do for all of them. As you gather with the children in your family this Christmas, whether they are your grandchildren, nieces and nephews, or your own kids, hold hands and say a prayer for these children who have sacrificed so much. Pray that the same Spirit who filled, guided and protected Mary, the mother of our Lord, Jesus Christ, will also comfort, protect and guide these children. Pray for the safety and protection of soldiers everywhere. Pray that children everywhere who have lost parents to violence, from the Sudan to Iraq, will actually know the "peace" declared by the angel to the shepherds: "Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, goodwill toward men."

Perhaps the greatest gift we can give to children around the world is the most expensive and difficult to achieve in a world of differences: real and lasting peace! They deserve it, we must strive for it!

One Sweet Bell Ringer

As I was headed into one of those large "box" stores this week, a woman was at her post ringing that familiar bell with the red kettle. She was a hoot! She sang, greeted every single person, even the Scrooge-like, no nonsense personalities who tried to get by her without being noticed. She was full of joy and the absolute spirit of Christmas that says, "I'm less concerned with what you think of me and how I'm acting than I am with making sure everyone knows the joy of the season."

I know the Salvation Army relies on volunteer bell ringers (our church has staffed the kettle several times), but they should hired this woman with the incredible smile and infectious spirit to train inexperienced bell-ringers. Her winsome spirit made my day.

Two types of people pass by the red kettles at Christmas. Those who give and those who don't. Regardless of excuses it boils down to giving at the moment or not. I usually don't carry much cash, but during Advent, I do my best to have some with me while I'm out so I can give to those kettles. No, I'm not trying to make a show of my gifts and I usually try to do it quietly without notice. Our largest giving is spent on our Angel Tree children and our church Christmas offering, but those kettles need our gifts as well.

Cash contributions both great and small help insure that the Salvation Army can continue to offer a variety of worthwhile, year-round ministries. And their administrative overhead is one of the lowest among non-profit, charitable organizations. So for the rest of December, why not get a roll or two of quarters and put them in the car? As you enter or leave a store be sure to put something into the ol' red kettles. You never know who your gifts might clothe, feed, house or help!

Since I didn't have any change when I entered or left the store, I made a point to get some change out when I returned to my car and pulled up in front of the all-star bell ringer. She was still shouting, singing and greeting folks when I got out and headed toward her kettle. Her response was priceless: "Bless you baby and thanks for coming back. God bless you young man and merry Christmas." Ha! I can't remember the last time someone called me young. As I walked to the car I thanked God for the spirit and attitude of a very large, infectiously joyous woman who reminded me what Christmas is all about. I'm going to do my best to emulate her attitude and joy toward others in my travels this Christmas. It's downright contagious. Don't forget to feed the kettles!

One Messed Up Understanding of Christmas

Who needs to play one of the violent video games on the new, Nintendo Wii or Sony's Play Station 3, when you can just stand in line for them and personally experience violence? Consider an Associated Press Story written by Peter Svensson last week:

"HARTFORD, Conn. - Two armed thugs tried to rob a line of people waiting for the new PlayStation 3 game system to go on sale early Friday and shot one man who refused to give up his money, authorities said.

In Sullivan, Ind., a man was in critical condition after emergency surgery for a stab wound after he and a friend tried to rob two men of consoles they waited 36 hours in line to buy, police said.

Nationwide, short supplies of the PS3 and strong demand led to long lines of buyers, some waiting for days outside stores. Once the doors opened Friday, they pushed and shoved their way to the shelves in several cities to get at the limited supply. Two people were arrested in Fresno, Calif., after a crowd trampled people in a parking lot.
It was about 3 a.m. when the two gunmen in Putnam, a town of about 9,000 residents in northeast Connecticut, confronted 15 to 20 people standing outside a Walmart store and demanded money, said State Police Lt. J. Paul Vance. "One of the patrons resisted. That patron was shot," Vance said. Vance said the gunmen fled after shooting Michael Penkala, 21, of Webster, Mass., in the chest and shoulder. Penkala was in stable condition at the University of Massachusetts Medical Center in Worcester, Mass., with injuries not believed to be life-threatening, Vance said. Police were searching for the suspects, both believed to be in their teens, Vance said. He said one was wearing a ski mask and brandishing a handgun, and the other had what appeared to be a shotgun.

About 30 miles away, another shopper was beaten and robbed of his new PlayStation 3 just minutes after he bought it at a store in Manchester, police said. The shopper told police five men surrounded and beat him as he left the Shoppes at Buckland Hills." (From The AP)

I don't know where to start? The cultural implications of this story are numbing. People standing in line, many camping out for days in cold weather and risking personal injury to spend hundreds of dollars on an electronic gadget that will be outdated within three years. Or, noting that both new game systems are now being offered on E-bay anywhere from $1,500-3,000! Not to mention those who offered to pay people hundreds of dollars for their place in line at retail stores offering limited supplies of the games. And the thugs who prey on these people is an all-time low for the criminal mind.

Has anyone stopped to consider that both of these games will be available in supply o' plenty after Christmas and most likely at a much lower price? Has anyone stopped to think about the value we are once again placing on stuff? No, I'm not bashing ownership of such a game system. I'm questioning our priorities and obsession with things. Wonder what the average family in Darfur, or the Sudan thinks about this insane violence over an affluent commercial obsession when they are just trying to survive one more day? And you gotta love the television commercials for the latest war or terrorism games for these new game systems. Now the average ten to twelve year-old American kid can electronically experience the violence that their child counterparts in Gaza, Iraq, or Lebanon are experiencing in the flesh! Bet the average Iraqi child would just like to go outside and play soccer without fear of being blown up.

It's nearly Advent folks, the Christmas season is upon us. I pray my checkbook entries and credit card receipts will honor God as much, if not more, than they honor my own selfish wants and desires. As people continue to lose sight of the real meaning of Christmas and pack out the malls corrupting what God had in mind when He gave the greatest gift ever given, perhaps those of us who call him, Lord, can simply exercise some grace toward those who don't get it. Perhaps we can do it in little ways by holding doors, giving up the preferred parking space to someone who really needs it, smiling in long lines and saying thank-you, or excuse me. Yes, we need to donate time, funds and items for worthwhile causes too. But as Christ-followers we really need to model grace this time of year because we have already received the greatest, most expensive and elaborate gift ever given, Jesus Christ, God in the flesh! And all the warehouses on earth filled with Ninetendo Wii's or PS3's can't even come close to the value of that gift!

Developing a Heart Habit

Throughout the book of Psalms we find the psalmist declaring thanks to God and calling the people of God to do the same. The theme of gratitude is found throughout the Hebrew songs of praise. A recurring line in many of these ancient songs of thanksgiving and praise is the declaration of the eternal character of God's love: His love endures forever.

Psalm 136 is a wonderful expression of thanksgiving that lists the powerful deeds, provisions and acts of God for which the psalmist is grateful. The psalm extols God's faithfulness and repeatedly proclaims His never-ending love.

Give thanks to the LORD, for he is good. His love endures forever.
Give thanks to the God of gods. His love endures forever.
Give thanks to the Lord of lords: His love endures forever.
(Psalm 136:1-3 NIV)

A.W. Tozer wrote about developing the habitual practice of thanksgiving: "We should never take any blessing for granted, but accept everything as a gift from the Father of Lights. Whole days may be spent occasionally in the holy practice of being thankful. We should write on a tablet one by one the things for which we are grateful to God and to our fellow men. And a constant return to this thought during the day as our minds get free will serve to fix the habit in our hearts...."

May Thanksgiving 2006 provide each of us some moments alone with God as we seek to cultivate the heart habit of gratitude. Reflection upon God's provision, care and eternal love puts any petty concerns we may have in proper perspective. May an overwhelming awareness of God's blessings be upon all of us as we celebrate Thanksgiving!

A New Bond and Dancing Penguins Hit the Big Screen

It's been 44 years since Scottish actor Sean Connery donned a white tux in the little known British movie, "Dr. No" and brought author Ian Flemming's British secret agent, James Bond to life. 21 movies later, Bond is still kicking. Since Dr. No's film debut, four other actors have dared to put their spin on 007 : George Lazenby; Roger Moore; Timothy Dalton and Pierce Brosnan. This weekend, actor Daniel Craig becomes the sixth actor to play the larger than life British spy. The PG-13 rated "Casino Royale" opens in theatres nationwide today. Casino Royale is actually the very first Bond story written by Flemming. It's about Bond's beginnings in Her Majesty's Secret Service.

While critics and fans alike will continue to weigh in, early reviews of the first blonde haired Bond have been good. That's probably a good thing since the actor is contracted to star in two more Bond films. However, diehard Bond fans can hardly imagine anyone else in the role perfected by the Academy Award winning, Sir Sean. Bond films offer an escape from reality for those of us who love gadgets, intrigue, fast-paced action and suspense. However, I wouldn't recommend them for a family movie night, given the Bond character's unsually high and abnormal testosterone levels. Remember it's fiction and just fun for action movie fans, not an endorsement of a lifestyle!

For those unimpressed by Bond, how about a bunch of dancing penguins? The Warner Bros. animated "Happy Feet" opens this weekend too. Robin Williams heads an all-star cast providing voices for the dancing penguins. Among them Elijah Wood, Hugh Jackman and Nicole Kidman. The plot is about emperor penguins who find their mates through song. However, one penguin enters the world unable to sing, but boy can he dance. Movie trailers and reviews carry the following warning about the movie: "Caution: May Cause Toe Tapping". Robin Williams was interviewed this week on NBC's Today Show. It was so good to see him after his recent round with in-patient recovery. One of the best lines of the interview was when Williams said his children were glad to have him back! We are too Robin!

As always, MCF, nor I, endorse or agree with the entire content, themes and ideas in these and other movies. Christ-followers searching for a movie review resource from a spiritual perspective might want to go the following website before heading to the theatre: http://www.hollywoodjesus.net/ . They don't hold back on their reviews and may save you a lot of money, not to mention wasted time at the theatre. Here's what they had to say about the the movie "Borat", which kept me from going to see it:

"Borat is portrayed as the stereotypical foreign rube as well as an anti-Semitic, misogynistic, bigoted, ill-mannered and crude – but deceptively innocent -- guy. The R-rated film includes raw language, male frontal nudity, naked men wrestling, scatological gags and comments offensive to pretty much every group on the planet. The Central Asian nation of Kazakhstan, about which there is virtually no shred of truth in the film, has hired Western public-relations firms to deal with what their Washington embassy called “a one-man diplomatic wrecking ball.”.....A film like Borat simply manufactures an ugly caricature of foreigners and trumpets an even uglier American and Western mindset of cultural superiority over all.
No wonder a large portion of the world hates us." ---Hollywood Jesus Review

Now, I'm really counting the days until the release of "The Nativity Story"(Dec. 1st), a story of a child who would change the world forever! Check out the trailer at http://www.thenativitystory.com/

A Metal Building, Concrete Floors and a Lawnmower

"......And Lord, I just want to thank you for a metal building, concrete floors and a lawnmower." My friend from Florida was closing his prayer as we gathered in the building where Mosaic meets for weekly worship. Although he and his precious wife have supported Mosaic's vision since it began over four years ago, this was the first time they had actually been to Powdersville. The three of us had just knelt to pray at the altar of the worship center. His prayer reminded me what's important and what's not, and if you are not careful the least important can become your focus.

If this isn't making sense let me help. Mosaic's building is a metal building and the worship center is located in a warehouse with unfinished concrete floors. Oh yeah, there's also a riding lawnmower in the corner, but that's another story.

During dinner and later as we gathered at the building, I just couldn't stop telling them all of the awesome and incredible things God was doing through our fellowship. Every story was about God's intervention in someone's life, or how He changed a life, saved a marriage and answered our prayers. At one point I realized I had been blabbing about God's incredible power and presence almost non-stop and I apologized for telling just "one more story", praising God. My friends were patient, interested and actively listening to the stories of God's activity in the lives of those who are part of the Mosaic faith community. You see they have an investment in Mosaic and while they are not here physically, they are still an important part of the Mosaic family as are many around the country who pray for us.

At Mosaic, we never refer to the building where we meet as the "church". It's just a "building". The church is the people and it is exists wherever we gather (in homes, at work, on the golf course, small groups, etc.) and it's much, much larger than those who gather for weekly worship at 109 Leader Drive in Piedmont(Powdersville) , South Carolina. It's church with a small "c" and something beyond walls and geographic boundaries.

As tears filled his eyes, my friend said that so many churches have lost their focus and the kingdom of God has become about, "bricks and mortar". He also encouraged our leadership to make sure we never forget that it's about people. In his words, "metal buildings, concrete floors and a lawnmower in the corner," enable us to keep the focus on God, not anything we've done.

Hear me out, there’s nothing wrong with building functional facilities for worship and ministry. There’s nothing wrong with adding programs or ministries, and the necessary staff to help people grow in Christ. However, when our focus shifts from a Christ-centered biblical worldview to an exclusive view of the local church that simply builds bigger barns to attract sheep from other, established pastures, we are in trouble. Jesus has already weighed in on this self-serving attitude in (Luke 12:15-21).

I'd love to say what's happening in our faith community of imperfect people with flawed leadership is because of something we've done, but it's not. It's totally about what God has and continues to do. It's about His glory. Yes, there have been and there will be many more bumps, but God's power cannot be held back by the powers of this world. In the words of my friend, "And Lord, I just want to thank you for a metal building, concrete floors and a riding lawnmower!"

Growing Weary and Losing Heart, Not!

According to the writer of Hebrews, every Christ-follower, whether male, female, layperson, clergy, or missionary, etc., should have the same focus: "Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfector of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured such opposition from sinful men, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart."

When I heard the weekend news about Colorado mega-church pastor and (now former) President of the National Association of Evangelicals, Ted Haggard, my heart sank. I was saddened, sick and angry. My thoughts and prayers were focused on his family and church. I also thought about how lonely and dark life must appear to him right now. I didn't wonder whether the initial accusations of his drug use and homosexual activity were true or not. I knew that the truth would ulitmately come to light. I simply ached for everyone and I mean everyone involved. Now the truth is out and the national media, political pundits, resident cynics and hired arm-chair quarterbacks are weighing in with their opinions. Some of them are downright cruel and equally as sinful (judgment, critical spirit) as the very behavior they are analyzing.

I take no joy or delight in the public or private pain of another human, organization, team or business. The list of influential people in the public spotlight who have crashed recently are too numerous to mention. Nearly all of them fell victim to self-inflicted wounds fueled by bad choices. Seems like I've made some bad decisions in my life too! I used to be right in the middle of the "pile-on" group, offering after-the-fact criticism and public disdain for the individual, or behavior in question. I used to get sucked into the powerful temptation to join fellow pastors or ministers who were quick to accuse, judge, gossip, and critique similar situations. However, since those days I have discovered (or rediscovered) that the first and final default for a Christ-follower should be love. And perhaps its only because I've become keenly aware of my own shortcomings, sins and failures that so desperately need, crave and respond to that kind of love. You can preach sin, judgment, condemnation and disobedience all you want, but at the end of the day we are only made right with God through the unconditional love and sacrifice of Jesus.

Ted Haggard did what every Christ follower has done at least once----he grew weary and lost heart. It's easy to do. It happens whenever we take our eyes off Jesus. Some people get sidetracked by affluence, and possessions. Others lose sight because of the intoxication of power and fame. However, scripture is clear. When we focus on Jesus and His phenomenal act of love (the cross) on our behalf, we will not grow weary and we will not lose heart! Saying that is easy, staying Christ and cross-focused is not. It's the most challenging thing a human can ever do. But because of our own imperfect souls we must focus exclusively on Christ because it is in fact the only thing that brings relief, healing and forgiveness to a wounded soul. And all of us, ALL of us suffer wounds of the soul.

I'm reading a new book by Jerry Bridges of Navigators. It's entitled, "The Fruitful Life," and it's about the fruit of the Spirit. I was reading the chapter on love when all of this went down last Friday. Jerry writes: "Devotion to God is the only motivation acceptable to God for the development and exercise of Christian character. But devotion to God finds its outward expression in loving one another. ....our devotion to God is validated by our love for other people......To recognize that there is somone I do not love is to say to God, 'I do not love you enough to love that person.' "

The first news report I saw about Ted Haggard came across the television as I read those words. It stopped me in my tracks. And then I went on to read: "Do we love one another enough to forgive each other, with or without apologies for wrongs done to us?....In order to forgive our brother, we must be satisfied with God's justice and forego the satisfaction of our own.....And love forgives at great cost to itself; it does not demand justice or even changed behavior from its brother. This forgiven aspect of love enables us to be patient with one another and live at peace with one another. It enables us to deal gently with each other, even when we are sinned against."

Just as we choose who, or what will be the focus of our lives, we also choose how we will respond to those who make poor choices and take their eyes off Christ. Though angry, hurt and heartbroken I am choosing love. May God's grace smother the Haggard family as this human and wounded shepherd begins the painful process of repentance. May God stir the spirit of the accuser, and may He continue to lead, protect, guide and shepherd His church in Colorado and beyond despite the human failings of her earthly leaders!

Must See Movies and a Must Read Book

There are two movies (one currently playing and one to be released in December) that you need to put on your "must see" list. And there's a newly released biography you'll want to get from the library or purchase to read.

• The first is "One Night with the King," the biblical story of Esther who became Queen through a fascinating series of events and loyalty to God. You can find out more about the movie at http://www.8x.com/onenight/ This is not your typical, low budget Christian film-makers attempt to tell a biblical story. The cast boasts the presence of legendary actors Omar Sharif and Peter O'Toole. Tiffany Dupont plays the role of the Jewish Esther who rose to national prominence in the midst of Jewish oppression. God's placement and protection of Esther and His purpose for her life remind all of us that God is actively involved in the culture and simply wants His people to use their lives for His glory. Seasoned and respected movie critic, Michael Medved says this is "One of the most pro-Jewish movies I've seen in years. It's a handsome film, the production values are very high, the film is entertaining and inspiring....It looks like a much bigger budget production than it is. As somebody who tries to lead a religious, Jewish life it's a story we celebrate every year at Purim....I was stunned that a movie that is from a general market perspective has a deeper meaning behind it of Jewish teachings. It's a powerful testament of how the American Christian community loves the Jewish community. It's a love story to the Jewish people...Frankly if this had been produced by the Jewish community they would have been embarrassed to produce such a movie." Before you see the movie, read Esther's incredible story in the Old Testament. The movie is endorsed by the American Bible Society.

• The second movie will be released in early December. It's simply entitled "The Nativity Story". You can find out more details at www.thenativitystory.com. The movie is the incredible story of two people (Joseph & Mary), their enormous journey of faith and the "history defining" birth of Jesus Christ. The movie is produced and released by the nationally known and well respected New Line Cinema (Time Warner) company! Screenwriter, Mike Rich says: "We got the script into the hands of as many historians and theologians as possible. They have all helped elevate the authentic feel of this film, not only visually, but from a standpoint of culture and tradition." Here's a holiday suggestion. Invite your non-Christian, skeptical and seeker friends to the movie and go out for a cup of coffee afterward. Discuss why the story is so essential and important to Christ followers and the rest of the world. And by all means let them talk, question, and probe. Don't view them as your personal "evangelism project," just open the door for conversation and ask God to guide you.

• Neal Gabler has written the first biography of the legendary Walt Disney carrying the blessing and cooperation of the Walt Disney Company and the Disney family. It's entitled, "Walt Disney: The Triumph of the American Imagination." In one review, the author stated that one of Disney's daughters, Diane wanted to make sure the book didn't gloss over her father's faults, but to show the real Walt Disney. Syndicated columnist Cal Thomas' review of the book notes: "Forty years after his death in December 1966, the name Disney exemplifies safety and security for children and parents looking for wholesome entertainment. He may not have invented the the term 'family values,' but he perfected an art form through which he was able to transmit stories that American hearts enthusiastically received."

These three media offerings provide a ray of light in the middle of a dark culture and society. It's refreshing to see some pleasant alternatives to the non-stop violent, sex-saturated, amoral values that Hollywood continues to produce, market and sell! Being "in the culture" doesn't mean we have to accept or swallow everything that comes down the pike. It also doesn't mean that organized campaigns and protests are the best way to get through to those responsible for such entertainment options. Perhaps the best way is for Christ-followers to support healthy and redemptive media offerings. Record amounts of money at the box office on such redemptive, wholesome offerings will speak louder than any organized protest!

Perspective From a High School Noseguard

Kos Benham plays football with a passion like any other high school kid. However, Kos does it without legs! Kos plays football for Greenville's J.L. Mann High School. The 17-year old's incredible story is well-known in the Upstate region of South Carolina, but you may have not heard it. Born in Russia, a train accident claimed the life of his mother when he was 6-years old. Ironically, three years later Kos was "train jumping" with a friend in Russia and lost both of his legs in a life-threatening accident. Reporter Bob Castello with the Greenville News did a story on Kos in September. He wrote how Kos came to the United States and captured the heart of a Greenville family. Castello wrote:

"In the summer of 2004, Kos came to Greenville as part of the Hope Program, a Christian mission initiative led by local prosthetic specialist Dean Hesselgrave. Kos stayed with Kim Benham, her husband Dave and their four adopted children. Kos spent a month with the Benhams. That was enough. "We were not even seeking to adopt," Kim said. "We had four kids, and we were done. We kept him that month and absolutely fell in love with him. There were many families that would have adopted him, just because of how contagious he is and how wonderful he is to be around. But I was already mother hen. I said, 'Nope, I got him. He's in my home. I'm keeping him.' " One year from the day they met Kos, the Benhams completed his adoption in a court in Russia. While there, they visited the orphanage."

As a noseguard, Kos has inspired his teammates, opponents and even those rough and tough high school football coaches. In the newspaper interview his defensive coordinator Steve Oliver said: "He's amazing. When you see him, it's really hard to come out here as a coach or a player and feel sorry for yourself when you're having a hard day. He's an inspiration." Coach Oliver is right, Kos is an inspiration!

For someone without legs, Kos has an interesting perspective on life. His attitude is so encouraging: "I'm happy. My life is great," he said. "I'm glad to be here, and I'm grateful that my family adopted me."

Perspective is a great teacher if we'll just pay attention. Too often those of us with two legs complain about having to stand in line at a football game or airport. We're impatient waiting on food at our favorite restaurant while thousands of starving children die in Third World countries each day. Or, we complain about cold water from our shower while many would simply love to drink our shower water because it's so much cleaner than their drinking water. We watch television shows from an endless list of cable channels while soldiers and civilians in Iraq watch bodies destroyed by bullets and carbombs. Perspective is certainly amazing.

The Apostle Paul said that whatever we (Christ-followers) do, whether we eat or drink, we should do it for the glory of God (1 Cor. 10:31). Paul's admonition isn't dependent upon our circumstances or condition. Seeking God's glory is not optional for Paul, whether in prison or shipwrecked on an island. If a teenager without legs can be so grateful and happy over his life and adoption, how can we who've been adopted by God in Christ be held hostage by anything less than joy and gratitude?

Athletes or Thugs? It's Time to Stop the Violence!

The level of violence and dysfunctional behavior associated with college and professional athletics is getting ridiculous. Consider: The vivid ESPN replays of the bench clearing brawl between Miami and Florida International last weekend that required Miami Dade Police to intervene; the recent report of three Indiana Pacer players involved in an early morning assault outside a strip bar where they responded by firing their handguns; NFL journeyman and defensive tackle Albert Haynesworth who was suspended for five games for stomping on the un-helmeted head of a Dallas Cowboys player, requiring 13 stitches; not to mention $28-million, spoiled, pampered, premadona athletes who lead the media around like a dog and pony show for behavior that is always related to controversy, conflict and tears down the very team paying their salary instead of building it up!

ESPN college football analyst, former college coach and NFL player, Bill Curry says there are four types of players in these slugfests:

1) The player who removes himself from the brawl and returns to the sidelines
2) The player who tries to break up fights and pull teammates away
3) The player who, in the heat of the moment helps defend his temmates, but doesn't rage
4) The player who intentionally seeks to inflict harm, or injury toward other players

Curry says the fourth player above needs to be banned from college football and declared ineligible to play in the NFL, NBA, etc. And the professional athlete with lethal behavior needs to be cut loose and not allowed to return. Is Coach Curry overreacting or being melodramatic? Are these the words of a "patsy or pansie"? Hardly. This is from a guy who played center for Lombardi's Packers on the frozen tundra of Lambeau field (before sideline heaters and misting chill fans). He faced some of the most nasty, mean, tenacious competitors the game has ever seen. By his own admission he's been the #3 player above, who 40 years later is still apologizing for losing his cool under long forgotten and publicly confessed, disagreements in the height of competition. His point? Dangerous, malicious, intentionally violent thugs cannot be tolerated in society, much less in athletics.

Miami Sophomore safety, Anthony Reddick was initially suspended for one game by the University of Miami after he charged across the field, helmet raised over his head, and slammed it into an opposing player during the athletic riot. While his suspension has since been extended, the original "one game" suspension for felonious behavior by a team member of a perennial powerhouse that is really struggling to post "W's" this season speaks loudly about the culture and values of the team, coaches, athletic department and university! Miami suspended 12 other players for one game. One game! Contrast that protective response with the post-game response of Florida International who dismissed two players and extended the suspensions of 16 sanctioned players indefinitely, well beyond "one game". Now that's got some teeth to it. Miami's president said she had not even viewed the video tape of the brawl. She also said her school will not bow to pressure from the media frenzy demanding a harsher response just to improve the University's image or reputation. Perhaps she needs to speak with the presidents of the University of South Carolina and Clemson University who went way beyond a one game suspension two years ago.

I'm with Coach Curry, a committed Christ follower by the way. Yes, football is a very physical and sometimes violent sport. Occasionally even the best players lose control and respond with unsportsmanlike conduct. But the real athletes and role models accept the penalties, respect the officials and their coaches and respond with remorse, shame or embarassment for their temporary lack of restraint. They are contrite and seek to restore their name behind the scenes instead of holding a "blame everyone else but myself" news conference that is only about self-promotion and divides teams. Lethal, intentional assasins wearing a uniform cannnot be tolerated. Coaches, AD's and university leaders need to respond quickly without regard to the few, deep pocketed boosters and athletic sugar daddies who choose to ignore such behavior for the sake of a win or bowl bid.

Years ago my beloved Kentucky Wildcats basketball program received one of the harshest penalties on record by the NCAA. The "death penalty" brought one of the nation's premier programs to a grinding halt. Many say the NCAA overreacted. While my beloved Big Blue suffered for a few years, the punishment was a wake up call to the University, athletic department, boosters and fans. Sometimes massive fines, time-consuming community service penalties, lengthy suspensions and even banishment from the sport are the only things that get attention. But as long as fans fill the stands, buy team logo'd merchandise, concessions, season tickets and make no ethical demands of their players, university or franchise, nothing will change and the thug mentality will only grow. Meanwhile, high school and middle school athletes watch, observe, learn and mirror their models.

Kudos to programs like Clemson and the University of South Carolina who sacrificed money and trips to post-season bowls for a pre-game brawl two seasons ago. It was a tough pill, but one you could point young athletes to as an example of consequences for actions. It also made me proud to call South Carolina home!

Conversations, Observations & Experiences

Here are some recent conversations, cultural observations and experiences in no particular order:

• Sent our insurance agent an email (after 7pm) from my church office two weeks ago after our break-in and he called my cellphone before I got home! Said he had "Blackberry-itis," and can't ignore the flashing light on his. I've tried text messaging on my cellphone and it's addictive. Last thing I need is email coming directly to my waistline, I'd never be able to give people my undivided attention in conversations. Ummmmmmmmm apparently it's happening all over. Why do we often let things intended to simplify and streamline life make life more complicated?
• It's official, one out of every six people I encountered in a single day last week greeted me, or responded to my greeting as we met at store entrances, restaurants, etc. Perhaps more disturbing were the number of people who looked me straight in the eye and never said a word, not even "thank-you" while holding a door open for them, or saying, "hello," to them. We are becoming so self-absorbed that we are downright rude and unfriendly. While it may be optional for the culture, consideration for others is never optional for Christ-followers.
• A friend who is a very mature, biblical and joyful Christ-follower recently commented that he believes over 75% of those who profess to be Christians are not! I asked him why and he cited example after example of people who are good Baptists, Methodists, Presbyterians, etc., but don't act like Jesus, spend little time in God's Word and give no evidences of the fruit of the spirit (Gal. 5:22ff) in their family, work and leisure. His point was that we've raised people to be great church members, but lousy disciples or followers who practice the Jesus way. He didn't say it with condescension, spiritual arrogance or a sense of judgement. He was heartbroken about it with a biblical grief. He may be right, he may be wrong, it's not my call, but trying to model your life after Jesus is not optional if you profess to be one of His followers!
• Perhaps the strongest case for democracy was recentlly made when Iranian president Ahmadinejad and Venzueulan president Chavez stood in the heart of NYC (at the United Nations) and assailed the United States and her leaders without the threat of persecution, prosecution or retribution. Would their governments be so committed to free speech that they would allow American politicians and leaders to do the same in Venzuela and Iran? I'm with Democratic New York Congressman Charles Rangel who responded to Chavez's vitrolic comments toward President Bush: "You don't come into my country, you don't come into my congressional district and you don't condemn my president!"
• Wouldn't it be cool if Jesus could get the same kind of wall to wall news coverage that NFL receiver Terrell Owens gets whenever he says, or does anything? Nothing against Owens, but Jesus has done so much more for all of us!
• If you haven't done so, please stop and pray today for the parents, teachers and students of schools in Colorado, Pennsylvania and Wisconsin. All of them have experienced hostage situations and fatal shootings in the last two weeks. I'm reminded that life and children are precious gifts from God.

Simplicity Contradicts an American Trend

Try showing up at an American dinner party, or cookout and start talking about the need for simplicity, or the practical ways we can live simple lives and your likely to be asked to leave. Americans are noted for their love affair with the latest gadgets, electronic toys and plain old stuff. We are awash in possessions that scream "affluence" to Third World and emerging countries struggling to break free of the chains of poverty and injustice.

We are a nation of pack rats. We tend to collect and keep our stuff. An article by Tim Jones in the Chicago Tribune a few weeks ago shed some light on our affection for stuff. He wrote:

"We may no longer be the top dogs in the production of steel,
cars, televisions and other manufactured goods, and we may be losing our
edge in science and technology. But the explosion in the number of
self-storage facilities clearly suggest a recurrent America, indeed a nation
of stuff. There are at least 55,000 self-storage facilities
scattered around the nation."

Jones cited a cultural observation made by Robert Hartwig, the chief economist at the Insurance Information Institute who sounds more like a sociologist:

"Thirty or 40 years ago people had more kids and less stuff. Now they have
fewer kids and more stuff. Part of this is simply affluence in America. Each and every family member now has more possessions."

Few, if any of us have a clear conscience much less garage, shed or storage building in this matter. Christ-followers should take the lead in scaling down, reducing and simplifying our homes. Afterall, our very leader declared in Matthew 8:20, "Foxes have holes and birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man has no place to lay his head." Granted, this statement was about the cost of following Jesus and not an inventory of His earthly possessions. However, the point is well made, Jesus led and modeled the simple life. No matter how hard you try you can't read the words and teachings of Jesus and square them with a lifestyle that consumes more stuff than we actually need.

In his classic best-seller, "Celebration of Discipline," theologian Richard Foster devotes an entire chapter to the outward spritual discipline of simplicity. He shares ten controlling principles for how Christ-followers should live out the discipline of simplicity. Here are five of them:

1. Buy things for their usefulness rather than their status.
2. Reject anything that is producing an addiction in you. (e.g., chocolate, food,television, etc.)
3. Develop a habit of giving things away.
4. Learn to enjoy things without owning them.
5. Shun anything that distracts you from seeking first the kingdom of God.

Perhaps it's time we all went through the garage, basement, attic or storage barn. Here are some questions that should guide our journeys into storage areas: What can I live without? What do I have that someone else in need can use? What am I hoarding, that I do not use and could really give away? How can I acquire less "stuff," and still realize much more substance or fullness of life? Are there consuming areas of my life that have captivated my wallet and held my heart hostage as well? What does the Bible say about possessions, wealth, etc.? These are all good questions and an excellent starting point for a simplicity self-examination . Let's keep it simple and search ourselves as well as our homes as we try to keep life simple. Jesus maintained a simple life, so follow His lead and resist the temptation to make it more complicated and cluttered than it's supposed to be!

To The Person Who Stole From Our Church

Dear Thief:

I wish I could use a different title to greet you, but that’s what you are—a common, every day, petty thief. Did you know when you broke into our storage building that you not only violated the people who represent Mosaic, but you violated God? You stole from the very people God has called and entrusted to do His work, the New Testament church. Perhaps you don’t understand how important the church is to God. The church is part of the divine plan. His only Son, Jesus Christ willingly gave His life so the church might be presented to God as pure, blameless and without blemish. Jesus is described as the bridegroom and the church is His bride. So you insulted Jesus’ wife! I don’t have a storage building, but it would have been better for you, had you broken into mine instead of God’s.

I can’t imagine the desperate circumstance that forced you to steal from a church. Was it:

· drugs, or another addiction
· divorce
· the loss of a job
· mismanagement of funds due to poor decisions
· a rare medical need, or a child in need

Perhaps you simply did it out of spite, meanness, or anger. Did you know you didn’t need to do it? Our church is known for its heart for people. We really believe God called us to help the broken, wounded and hurting. That’s why we would’ve given you the new weed eater, blower, and portable gas grill if you had asked for them.

By the way, we’re not mad at you! We ache for you, we pray for you and desperately want you to experience the unconditional love and grace of God. I hope you got the estimated $650 we valued the stolen goods to be. If not, you got cheated and settled for way less. Perhaps that’s the whole point….you have settled for less your whole life---less, than your life potential, gifts and talents. Less than what God desires for you. That must be a terrible weight to carry.

I hope you are making good use of the weed eater and the next time you are tempted to break into a church, let me suggest you call first and use the front door. Chances are we’ll not only let you in, but help you carry the stuff out, or meet your need in a more direct way. I hope you get all this straightened out with God before it’s too late. Because God will get what’s His, history and scripture bear witness to that fact. Be safe and sleep well!

When Life Demands Grace

I believe there are daily events, actions, experiences, and people we encounter that demand grace. I don't mean the people demand it like a king touting orders to his court, but the circumstances demand grace from Christ-followers. As you survey the evangelical landscape of America do you believe most Christ-followers are dispensing grace more today than in the past? Or, have we adopted America's self-absorbed, consumer culture of affluence to the point that we extend a grace with limits, if we extend it at all?

This applies to the sublime as well as the serious. For example, yesterday, a doctor who works out where I go to sweat, camped on the horn of his late model Mercedes as we waited to turn out of the center after working out. He does not know me, but I know him. He was behind me and there was no place for me to go as rushhour traffic crawled by like a snail. Apparently, he wanted me to move faster than traffic would allow. This wasn't a friendly horn tap to wake up. It was a sustained horn blast that is usually produced with a fist on the steering wheel. My first reaction was not grace-filled. After muttering some chosen words of blessing I contemplated putting my car in park and just getting out to falsely inspect my tires as if something was wrong. I thought about going 30 MPH in the 45 MPH speed zone. I thought about shaking my fist at him outside my window. But I didn't. I simply pulled out as traffic allowed, but was unable to get him off my mind or my tail. Yes, he was tailgaiting as we pulled out. As I headed toward my next stop in the slow moving traffic on the single lane city street, I passed a truck that was trying to turn into our lane from a neighborhood street in between stoplights. I didn't stop to let him in because traffic was thick and to be honest, I was still thinking about the horn-blaring Mercedes. Then it happened, all in my rear view mirror.

The Mercedes stopped and let the truck turn in traffic and get between us! Wait a minute, he wasn't supposed to do that! There it was in the middle of a hectic commute, a small act of grace in the least expected place, by the least suspected person. While I didn't react in anger, I didn't display grace in this situation either. My focus was still on the Mercedes and its driver who had obviously moved on. Maybe he was late for a critical hospital visit, or consult with another doctor. Perhaps he had just received an important call from home or the office. He could have just been having a bad day. None of that entered my mind. I was focused on his act of anger toward me, instead of my response. Lesson learned, humble pie served and God spoke to me through the unexpected generosity of a honking-mad doctor!

I was able to return the favor when I arrived at my destination and allowed someone to pull in front of me. However, my reaction to the blaring horn caused some serious introspection. If I was slow to extend grace in that situation what about bigger issues? Am I dispensing grace toward fundamental Muslims and Christians, who invoke the name of God in their condemnation of others? Are my arms of grace wide enough to hold the convicted child-molestor, or the drunken driver convicted of vehicular homicide? Do I have enough grace for the ocassional self-centered, affluent, materially consumed people I see and overhear at Starbucks, or the Goth-decked student covered in piercings, tatoos and skull t-shirts? What about the man with obvious mental issues who uses the restroom and everyone avoids while enjoying their $3 latte's? And the Washington politicians with which I disagree on many issues that other Christians are quick to pronounce eternal judgment upon? What about that group of teenage, African-American boys with hats donned sideways, and shorts about to fall off, making off-handed outspoken remarks about women who pass them in a mall I frequent?

Grace isn't a biblical option for the people of God. That which we personally crave the most must be evident in our treatment of others. How can we ask for grace when we aren't willing to extend it to others? God's grace isn't conditional. His grace is supposed to be our model. Jesus extended grace to a thief on the cross as He faced his own death. He extended it to the very hands of those who crucified Him. Yes, he set the grace standard high. That's what makes grace so special and so uniquely Jesus!

In 1993, Willow Creek pastor, Bill Hybels bared his soul to a packed R.A. Torrey auditorium at the annual Moody Pastor's School. His sermon shared his own story of being so busy with the things of God that he forgot the very work of God in his own heart. At the time it was courageously transparent. After the message, then Moody President, Joe Stowell rose from his chair and began leading the 1200+ pastors in singing: "Grace, grace, God's grace, grace that is greater than all our sin." It was quite an emotional, holy and spiritual moment. Dr. Stowell was right, it's all grace. Perhaps like me, you need to ask God to reveal the areas of your life that need to be more grace-giving. He will. When He does, act on it.

Blessed and Blessing

A few years ago, country singer, Martina McBride recorded the song, "Blessed". I heard it recently while returning from a birthday party for a family member where extended family and old friends gathered. As I looked around the room there were kids I held as babies who were now in college or just out, there were some seasoned saints, some who held me as a child, and others who helped me grow in ministry with much grace and patience. There were parents of kids I had led in youth ministry who were now grandparents and friends I had served with when I began my vocational ministry.

As I surveyed the room and retreated to the kitchen before a tear could slip out, I couldn't help but think how blessed my life has been. I was overwhelmed with just how much God has blessed my life and none of it had to do with anything I've done. I am so rich in God's blessings. I'm not wealthy in material possessions or awash in affluence, but I am drowning in God's gracious blessings upon my life over the years. Every good and perfect gift in my life has come from God. And my blessed state has not been dependent upon my mood, my Christian walk, or tough times because He has continued to bless me even in very difficult times and challenges. Most of the time He has blessed me in spite of my undeserving behavior, attitude and actions.

You may not be aware of God's blessings in your life. Right now you may be in a season of great pain, challenge, doubt or fear. It might be the result of a decision you've made, or something someone else has done. I've been there. Maybe not necessarily where you are, but I've known trouble, disappointment, heartache, sin and pain. However, as I reflect on those times, I can see the hand of God and His blessing in my life. Sometimes it's a hand of discipline and the blessing is within His loving correction.

From wonderful weather, abiding friendships, close family ties, children, clothing, food, heat, air conditioning, employment, transportation, clean water, and the unconditional love of people I frequently disappoint, God continues to bless my life. He blesses yours too! Sometimes we even forget that our personal accomplishments (job, education, positions, knowledge, talents,etc.) are the direct result of God's blessing. I love the translation of the latter part of verse 5 of the 23rd Psalm in the New Living Translation: "My cup overflows with blessings." Martina you are right, I have been blessed!

Recognition of God's blessing should prompt two responses from His followers: gratitude to God and blessing others in His name. Passing a blessing in the Old Testament was serious business. In simple terms it was viewed as conveying God's favor upon someone. We who have been blessed are indebted to God and must be a blessing to others. Our overflowing cups should ooze blessing. Is there someone who needs your blessing? Take the time to bless them today by calling, sending a card, flowers, an email, or by doing performing a simple act of service. Take time to thank God for His blessings. Here's the chorus to Martina's song:

I have been blessed

And I feel like I've found my way

I thank God for all I've been given

At the end of every day

I have been blessed

With so much more than I deserve

To be here with the ones that love me

To love them so much it hurts

I have been blessed

Katrina One Year Later

A year ago when Katrina hit the Gulf Coast I was enjoying the heat and sunshine of Central Kentucky as we celebrated my parents 50th wedding anniversary. Having lived in Florida, we were keenly aware of the potential of this storm as we watched the news reports before it came ashore. However,we could not conceive the level of devastation that would strike Alabama, Mississippi and Louisiana.

The television reports played out live images of natural destruction previously reserved for newspapers the morning after, or video reports that were taped only to be shown later. Live television and the Internet made this a disaster like no other. Katrina became like the Viet Nam war. It was the first war played out on the nightly news with images of body bags and body counts we had not seen previously. Katrina was the first full fledged natural disaster in the United States to receive wall to wall coverage as it was actually happening.

Who can forget the human sea standing outside the Superdome just wanting water and a way out of the city, or those countless images of people standing on rooftops as floodwaters rose to record levels, and the dead bodies pushed to the side in make shift morgues. The images of children separated from parents and the countless stories of families who were split apart by the storm are still very painful. It was a tragedy of biblical proportions.

I realize there is still quite a lot of work to be done along the Gulf Coast. It would be very naive to expect life to return to normal only one year after such devastation. The internal collapse of state and local governments and the slow response of federal disaster infrastructures has been well documented. A lot of people got caught unprepared. And the storm's destruction was at a level beyond anything previously experienced by those who handle such disasters. The blame game hurled between politicians from Washington to New Orleans did little to improve the situation. It never does. Hungry people have never been impressed by heated discussions,or the isolated grandstanding famous actor or musician who flew in to hold a news conference decrying conditions in which they are not trained and equipped to assess and handle. All the hungry really want is food. All the victims of Katrina wanted was help.

There is still a lot that needs to be done and much of the destruction will never be repaired or restored. Many are still displaced from their homes. The flow of aid funds has hit its fair share of roadblocks and much of the trauma will be with the victims for the rest of their lives. However, we cannot let this suffocate and maime the outpouring of love, money, blood, food, water, clothes, housing, medical and disaster response that has and continues to be donated! Much of it was from the Christian community. Help came from a variety of denominations and churhces as well as para-church organizations. No one questioned or debated theological differences, we simply did what God called us to do, help people in the name of Christ. From trained, national and global ministry disaster relief units that were on site and operational within hours, to the countless number of mission teams from local churches across America, including our's, who gave their time and talents to the relief, clean up and rebuilding efforts, God's people responded!

I believe Katrina brought out the best in America, her people and those of her citizens who also by the grace of God, claim heavenly citizenship in the eternal kingdom of God.

As we move through this national disaster anniversary, let's take time to reflect, remember and pray. Let's remember the many unsung heroes who chose to be part of something larger than themselves. Thank God for their commitment and dedication. Thank God for those celebrities who genuinely used their fame to call attention to the crisis and solicited help, many of them who even shunned the personal limelight to get the word out. Let's remember those who are still displaced, living in temporary housing, struggling with medical conditions, lost jobs, financial crisis and the loss of loved ones. May God be their comfort and portion! May God bless them in ways beyond their imagination through the hands of His servants so that He may receive glory and no one else! May God bring unity among politicians, scientists, engineers, contractors and others who still have an enormous job on their hands and need our prayers more than they need our criticism. May God reveal truth where needed in the ongoing evaluation of who received aid and who did not. May He reveal truth in any plans of deceit and personal gain related to the relief and rebuilding efforts. Let's thank God for the countless, nameless people who have given in any way to help others, especially those foreign countries who came to our aid.

And let's ask God to continually pierce our hearts for the wounded, hurting, broken and needy in our own back yards, who were suffering even before Katrina and desperately need our ongoing help and the love of Christ! Psalm 33:12 is often misquoted by those who worship their nation instead of God. It says, "Blessed is the nation whose God is the Lord, the people whom he has chosen as his heritage!" The "nation" in this text are the people of God, a spiritual nation, not one confined to a geographic border. May we seek to expand the spiritual nation through acts, words and deeds of love that bear the character of our Savior!

Thanks Mrs. Head, For Your Gift to Me and the World

Last week I trek'd across three states just in time to make the funeral visitation for a treasured friend's mother. After scrambling to change my weekday plans, reschedule and cancel some appointments I hit the road winding through Atlanta, onto Chattanooga, up to Nashville and over to West Kentucky. When I got to to the funeral home and hugged my friend, it was overwhelmingly clear to me why I had gone and why I wanted to be there. As much as I love to write and read, there are some life experiences and moments that are beyond description. This was one of them.

I served on a pastoral team with my friend, David and years ago while serving a state denomination office in Kentucky, he was also my pastor. One thing I remember about the time he served as my pastor-----He was always there for us! Whether to hold my hand, cry together, share a meal together and a laugh, or just let me vent, he was there. In my view that's the mark of a great shepherd and pastor. Someone who opens the window of their soul and lets you peer in, as you open your own window. This mutual vulnerability is what separates those who want to "look" like a pastor from those who really do have the heart of a pastor. There is a connection and when you connect it makes their preaching and teaching come alive because they are speaking out of a relationship, not like some "hired gun" preacher who rolls in town to offer you his greatest hits and then hits the road, never letting you get to know the real person. Through the years my friend and I have opened the window so many times that we don't have to say anything at times because we simply know what the other is experiencing, feeling or thinking. You see, I trust him and he trusts me.

David is deeply passionate about helping people develop a biblical worldview. He is equally passionate about his own walk with God. He is a musician, soul poet, writer, teacher, mentor, and confidant to those who've really taken the time to get to know him over meals or long conversations outside the church facilities. He does not "cut and run" either. David's sense of humor is so very large, a testimony to his mother, but it also explains how he can be a friend t o someone like me. He doesn't take himself too seriously, and has never had to be seen or viewed as "the pastor," as some in ministry do. He's authentic. He also knows how to speak the truth in love, which makes some people extremely nervous because they can't "play the game" with David. I have watched him weep and ache in private over the soul condition of many people, couples and church members. That is the mark of an authentic shepherd. Like me, he's a narrative kind of guy, but when you hear him preach/teach you can look back over the notes in your bible and see he's left you with more than a cute story and a joke. He's broken the Bread of Life and invited you to feast on the living Word! And before I finish, no he's not perfect, and he's never claimed to be. He is able to share his own struggles as well as his victories. I don't know about you, but I don't want a shepherd who has the need to always be right or perfect.

I met David's mom a few times over the years, but was never close to her. I didn't have to be. I had her son. People don't just grow up and fall in love with Christ and His church over night. They don't instinctively decide to serve others and invest their lives in ministry while many others choose to chase the Golden Goose and material wealth. Somewhere along the way, God uses His first choice instrument (people) to communicate and model the Gospel. In Acts we find God using Peter, John and Paul. God used Peggy to show David and his brother the way. Her life was a roadmap to God. She and David's Dad faithfully served God in their church and poured Jesus into their boys without shoving. Their simple and quiet lives of servanthood modeled something that neither of the boys could capture on screen or by reading.

Peggy's servant heart, joy in the Lord and passion for worship were so evident in her funeral. As a pastor, I've done many funerals over the years and most of them for Christ-followers. Very few, have had the celebratory, praise and passion to giving God glory in the midst of profound grief and pain like Peggy's. Her funeral did not dismiss grief, loss and pain, but like the writer in Lamentations, recognized and celebrated the powerful presence of God in the middle of such pain:

"Because of the Lord's great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness." (Lam. 3:22-23)

After attending the funeral, the psalmists words in Psalm 116:15 kept ringing in my head over and over: "Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints." How precious last week must have been to the Lord when Peggy Head came home!

Mrs. Head thank you for your service, passion and a life of faithfulness. But most of all, thank you for your gift to the church, the cause of the Gospel, the world and to me, your son, David. You enriched and blessed my life with his presence. What a gift!

What Do We Do With Maurice?

According to a recent AP story, former Ohio State University football star, Maurice Clarett has fallen, again:

(Wednesday, August 9, 2006 8:00 a.m.) "COLUMBUS, Ohio (AP) — Maurice Clarett was arrested early Wednesday after a highway chase that ended with police using Mace on the former Ohio State running back and finding four loaded guns in his truck, a police spokesman said.

Officers used Mace to subdue Clarett after a stun gun was ineffective because the former Fiesta Bowl star was wearing a bullet-resistant vest, Sgt. Michael Woods said."

You may remember Clarett, who scored the winning touchdown in double overtime to help the Buckeyes win the NCAA national championship in 2002. Not only could he flat out fly on the field, but his hard-hitting style gave opposing defensive coordinators fits. Clarett didn't return in 2003 because he was suspended after being charged with a misdemeanor. He dropped out of school and sued the NFL in 2004 to have his name put in the draft. He lost the lawsuit. In 2005 the Denver Broncos took a chance and drafted him in the third round, but he never made the team and was cut before the season began.

According to the AP story, Clarett was already awaiting trial on,"two counts of aggravated robbery, four counts of robbery and one count of carrying a concealed weapon in a separate case. Authorities said he was identified by witnesses as the person who flashed a gun and robbed two people in an alley behind the Opium Lounge in the early hours of Jan. 1."

From the choices he's made at only 22 years of age, it would seem that Clarett would rather wear a jail jumpsuit instead of a college, or NFL uniform. His choices beg numerous questions:

1) Why was he wearing a bullet proof vest?
2) Where are the recruiters and coaches who camped on his doorstep to recruit him in high school and road his back to a national championship? Or, has he refused their attempts or offers for help?
3) Why would you waste so much God-given talent?
4) Did anyone ever explain to him that everyone, even star athletes face consequences for their actions?
5) Did he ever give anyone permission to ask him the hard questions and hold him accountable?

Clarett's OSU media picture from the 2002 season and his most recent arrest picture should be posted side by side in every high school locker room in America. Students need to know that there are consequences for the choices we make and no one is above the law.

Former NBA all-star Charles Barkley may have been right when he launched a controversy years ago during his playing years by saying that he was not a hero, but an athlete. From Dwight Gooden, Darryl Strawberry to Marcus Vick, the list of fallen all-star athletes is long and growing. Some fall to drugs, others to crime and violence. Headlines, blogs and news reports continue to tell the ongoing saga of professional athletes and performance enhancing drugs. From the Tour de France to major league baseball no sport seems to have escaped this growing scandal.

But what about Maurice? At 22, he's just slightly older than my own son. He's got so much life left to live. Who's going to invest in the vast and dormant potential deep within his soul? Will someone help him learn from his mistakes and challenge him to encourage emerging generations not to choose the path he has chosen?

His story should help parents, coaches, ministers, and teachers remind students that their value is not rooted in athletic talent, their IQ, or their socioeconomic origin, but within their very own person. My grandmother was big on recognizing that even the most degenerate in society have the capacity for good and that there's something redeeming within every single one of us. It may be hard to find and require cultivation, but it is there deep within. I believe that because as a Christ-follower, I believe God created every single person in His image, and as fallen and depraved as all of us may be, we do not have to let depravity shape our lives, but can relinquish them to someone and a cause far greather than ourselves----the Kingdom of God.

I pray Maurice Clarett isn't thrown away like junk. I pray a church, ministry or Christian will connect with him and help him discover God's purpose for his life, which is way beyond what he can do with a football or a gun. I pray his story will be used to wake up kids who appear to be headed down his life path. I pray that those of us working with students will heed and act on early warning signs of potential trouble. And I pray that all of us will realize human heroes of any shape, size and background have clay feet. May God help us to point people to the only perfect, sinless and uncondtionally loving hero the world has ever known, Jesus Christ!

Mr. Gibson, I'm Praying

Racism, bigotry, and prejudice of any kind cannot be supported by Christians or Jews. It is in complete conflict with our most sacred words and doctrine. Howecver, both are replete with the mandate to not only seek personal forgiveness, but to grant it to others.

By now all of us have heard the hour by hour reports about Mel Gibson's arrest for DUI and the media frenzy that followed with his apology and the counter accusations or commentary from various religious groups, Jewish and Christian leaders.

Father Jonathan Morris, a regular commentator on the Fox blog and consultant on the set of Gibson's blockbuster, The Passion, has addressed this matter as someone who personally knows Mel Gibson and speaks for a significant segment of the Christian community. His entire comments on the subject can be found at www.foxnews.com/fatherjonathan. His closing remarks are not the remarks of a blindly loyal friend, but of someone who is trying to practice the Judeo-Christian mandate and ethic of forgiveness and accountability. He writes:

"Mel’s deplorable comments came from somewhere. In his inebriated state, he revealed what was on his mind in a given moment. Together with Mel, I condemn his statements about Jewish people and say they are not true. But I praise him for what is on his mind now, in cold and reflective sobriety, as expressed in his first apology and his subsequent letter to the Jewish community. Now is a time for forgiveness. Mel has asked for it. We should give it."

Gibson's struggle with alcohol is nothing new. By his own admission in countless interviews leading up to The Passion and beyond he is a compulsive. This is not big news to the rest of us who struggle with some type of compulsive behavior, whether it be perfection, shopping, cleanliness, gambling, smoking, over-eating, etc. During the days leading up to the release of The Passion, I expected something like this to happen. Those of us connected with the ministry of recovery know full well that compulsives who are not participating in an ongoing process of recovery are in the words of a friend in recovery ministry, "one step away from stupid."

If Christians and Jews cannot offer forgiveness to Mr. Gibson, then every one of us needs to stop seeking God's unconditional grace and forgiveness. If Jews and Christians cannot practice forgiveness then we need to remove Psalm 51 and Matthew 18:21ff from our respective Bibles, not to mention the countless biblical pleas to God: "forgive the sins of your servant; forgive the sins of your people; forgive my sin; forgive their sins; forgive their wickedness", etc.

Gibson's statement can be found at: http://edition.cnn.com/2006/SHOWBIZ/07/29/gibson.statement/index.html

The remarks and comments attributed to Mr. Gibson at the time of his arrest are indeed reprehensible, damning, vitrolic and mean-spirited. So are racists or prejudicial remarks made daily in complete sobriety toward Arabs, women, "Yankees", "Rednecks", Hispanics, Asians , African Americans, opposing schools, and on and on. How dare we dismiss, or rationalize our own prejudices by taking pleasure in Mr. Gibson's? Jesus said we need to get the log out of our own eye before we focus on the toothpick in our brother or sister's eye. I didn't say it was easy and without struggle. But if we're going to practice Judaism, or Christianity, we must love people, all people and leave judgement to God and the civil authorities charged with that responsibility.

For some time God has been telling me over and over, "love people Monty, love people." Funny, He says it more often when I'm around people who are very different from me in terms of culture/country of origin, skin color and ethnic background. I think He means it! No, I know He means it because His Palestinian-born, dark skinned, Aramaic-speaking, Jewish son died to show it.

Mr. Gibson, I'm praying for you. Your recovery, your walk, your talk and the reconciliation that needs to take place between you and the Jewish community. I'm praying you'll have the courage to admit when you are wrong and to seek deeper understanding and the respect of those you previously and perhaps even subconciously condemned. I'm praying that the spotlight on you will be dimmed long enough for you to have some time and space to work on your recovery and your family. I am praying for your family who (like mine in the past) are paying for an attitude, behavior and remarks they did not choose.

Mr. Gibson, I'm still thanking God (regardless of the motivation and critics) that you had the courage to tell the story of Jesus in a way that has never been told before and launched discussions, articles, blogs, books and a global conversation about Jesus that no church , or denomination could accomplish on its own. I'm thankful that you didn't physically hurt yourself, or someone else last weekend. I'm praying, as I do for myself every day, that when you are all alone with God you will find peace. I'm praying that my own attitudes, behavior, words and actions will reveal a love for others that is not humanly possible. I'm praying for Christians and Jews alike, to personally reflect and think about the implication and impact of our comments and actions before we make them.

Matt 6:14-15
For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins. (from New International Version)


Finally, I'm thanking God for His all too generous forgiveness and His patience with a deeply flawed, all too human pastor who is always, "one step away from stupid."

God Trusts Us With His Creation: Christian Environmental Stewardship

While the debate over global warming continues, Christians cannot disregard their responsibility on environmental stewardship. In the creation story from Genesis, God entrusts humanity with, "every living thing that moves upon the earth." In short, God has put humans in charge of the environment. Study after study continues to indicate a global increase in temperature. And while a handful of politicians continue to deny the accuracy and credibility of the mounting research, you don't have to be a rocket scientist to figure out that when God created the earth there were no smoke-belching factories, or cars, fewer animals and people producing ozone eating methane, chemicals, plastic and solid waste to harm the environment.

Recently the head of a large Protestant denomination wrote a resolution calling on Christians to steward the environment, a commendable move. However, it fell woefully short of accepting responsibility for the harm already done. It continued the illogical pattern of denial regarding humans affect and impact on the environment, noting that a recent, highly accredited scientific study on global warming did not specifically prove that humans are the reason global ocean and air temperatures have increased. I'm not making this up! A simple search of the EPA's website on global warming reveals the following:

According to the National Academy of Sciences, the Earth's surface temperature has risen by about 1 degree Fahrenheit in the past century, with accelerated warming during the past two decades. There is new and stronger evidence that most of the warming over the last 50 years is attributable to human activities. Human activities have altered the chemical composition of the atmosphere through the buildup of greenhouse gases – primarily carbon dioxide, methane, and nitrous oxide. The heat-trapping property of these gases is undisputed although uncertainties exist about exactly how earth’s climate responds to them.

The attitude of denial continues to fuel accusations and polarize members of both major political parties. Accusations and denial always take the focus off personal responsibility and accountability. When one party blames the other, and another denies, both can avoid personal responsibility and accountability on any topic. Instead of debating the research we should be asking what do we need to do to slow down global warming, pollution and care for God's creation? According to God's Word, our care and stewardship of the planet is not optional. We are responsible and we are accountable to God.

For years some noted theologians (Ron Sider, Richard Foster, Wendell Berry, Tony Campolo and others) have been calling on Christians to be leaders in environmental stewardship. We need to take the lead. Easy, I'm not saying we all need to go strap ourselves to a red wood tree in the Pacific Northwest, or cruise the ocean alongside whales. I'm simply saying that of all people, Christians should set the pace on environmental care. We can begin by doing simple things like:

• Recycling (plastic, metal, aluminum, paper, chemicals)
• Cutting back or bumping up the thermostat
• Using newer and more energefficientnt light bulbs
• Carpooling, or using public transportation when possible
• Drive late model cars that employ gas saving and pollution conscious technology
• Conserve water usage
• Purchase and use energefficientnt rated applicances, tools, and electronics
• Condense car errands and trips
• Use non-aerosol products/sprays

These are just a few examples, there are many more on the EPA website listed below under "actions". We can agree to disagree on the causes of greenhouse gases, climate increase, severe weather patterns and the ozone, but if you are a Christ-follower you cannot ignore our responsibility to care for the environment the Creator has entrusted us to steward. Future generations are dependent upon our use and care of the environment. Below are just a few websites regarding the issue:

• http://yosemite.epa.gov/oar/globalwarming.nsf/content/index.html
• http://www.giss.nasa.gov/research/features/altscenario/
• http://www.researchmatters.harvard.edu/topic.php?topic_id=98
• http://www.thewe.cc/weplanet/news/water/rising_sea_tempeerature_killing_great_barrier_reef.htm
• http://www.earth-policy.org/Books/PB2/PB2ch4_ss2.htm

Uptight Christians

Author, radio talkshow host and seminary professor, Steve Brown often says, "You ought to live your life with so much joy and freedom that uptight Christians will doubt your salvation." I think He's on to something. His book, Scandalous Freedom is a book that will make legalistic, uptight Christians squirm and sweat.

Brown isn't saying that Christ followers ought to purposely and intentionally sin to make the legalistic pious talk about them. But he observes that many Christ followers are trying to live according to someone else's standards, out of guilt or to meet a prescribed list of behaviors carefully approved by the self-appointed theologically pure, instead of God. Brown just wants Christ followers, both tenured and young to live fully in the incredible freedom that comes in Christ. The tenor and tone of Brown's book echoes much of what Paul dealt with in his letter to the Galatian Christians. Paul repeatedly reminded the Galatians of the freedom that comes through a life committed to Christ.

I'm amazed that in 2006, we still have Christians who are trying to please a church, denomination, pastor, or public ministry instead of trying to please God. Living in Christ really means that we are free to do whatever we want. However, because of Christ's resurrection power within us, we should desire to please God and bring Him glory through our decisions, conversations, and actions. Our freedom is not restricted, but simply transformed by the same passions and concerns Jesus had during His earthly ministry.

What was Jesus passionate about? Was He consumed with a legalistic, literal adherence to scripture? No, He spent much of His time debating and refuting the very leaders who were consumed with such legal issues. But He didn't bless sin, condone destructive behavior or dismiss the law. He did spend time with the socially marginalized, religious outcasts and noted sinners. He didn't focus on forcing them to follow the Law or the interpretations of man. Instead, He simply wanted people to experience love, grace, forgiveness, and justice so they could put it into practice in their own lives. His words were always in sync with the written Word, but His love for sinners (like me) is what made the Word become real, revered, respected and alive.

There's a classic encounter with the religious lawyers and Jesus in the 8th chapter of John's gospel where Jesus is trying to explain that ethnicity and conformity to the Law doesn't save people. He is the author of freedom and He saves people, which is something they couldn't handle. And freedom through Him celebrates the authority and proclaims the validity of His Word:

"So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed. I know you are Abraham's descendants. Yet you are ready to kill me, because you have no room for my word." (John 8:36-37) The culture has yet to experience the transforming power that's generated when Christ followers yield fully to the freedoms we have in Christ. Let's live in the freedom, but be mindful of the responsibilities that come with our freedom.

Life Together Is Worlds Apart - Part 2 of 2

Get the book, "Bowling Alone," by Robert Putnam. Putnam is an academic and professor of public policy at Harvard. His up close and hands-on observation of American culture is sobering. His book notes how the frayed ties of community are rapidly coming apart at the seams. Christians should use the book for helpful insight on the broken places we are called to minister and how we can help revive "community".

In the first part 1 of this blog post, I cited Boston Globe columnist Ellen Goodman's recent article entitled, "You Are Not Alone In Your Isolation". The article addressed America's dramatic increase in social isolation. The article was based on the study, "Social Isolation in America," co-authored by Duke University sociologist, Lynn Smith-Lovin.

Goodman comments, "Now we are living in smaller, tighter circles. We are 10 degrees of separation from each other and one or two people away from loneliness. And many now outsource intimacy from friends to professional therapists and, gawd help us, talk shows. Who can we talk t o about important matters? Who can we count on?"

Christ-followers need to see the "friendless" society as a wake up call and an opportunity for ministry. Not simply to be put another notch on our ministry gun-belts, or add to our membership rolls, but to offer hope through sincere, and authentic relationships with those who have "no one" to talk to. The solution for this troubling trend has Jesus written all over it. Even Jesus' earthly critics have to admit He was friend to the wounded, outcast, dejected, despised and lonely, and He was always investing in relationships and building community.

This is the work and passion of our Savior. Community is someting we should all be seeking, creating, nurturing, preserving and protecting. My concern is that my own faith community and others will become so safe, comfortable and complacent that we will be reluctant to share our Savior with others. If we do that we cease to be the New Testament church and we become a "bless me" club offering little more than IRS charitable deduction credit.

As long as there are lonely, marginalized, disconnected people we cannot sit idle! The love of Christ compels us to love others. Hopefully, years from now when sociologists look back they will note what a big part Christians played in reversing social isolation. On a practical note, what's something you can do for a neighbor (the one you hardly know) today? A potted plant, fresh baked cookies, bread or cake can open the fence of isolation. Who knows, they may be overwhelmed and blown away by the personal contact. Let's blow our neighbors away with love!

Life Together Is Worlds Apart -Part 1 of 2

Cultural observer and futurist Faith Popcorn observed in the 90's that many Americans were beginning to live isolated lives. She called it, "cocooning". Christian historian and futurist Len Sweet was among the first in the faith community to talk about the implications and impact this trend would have on the church. Pastor and author Leith Anderson also challenged churches not to get swept up in the culture of isolation and to offer an alternative.

It's been 10 years since Popcorn's "cocooning" observation and a new study reveals American's isolationism has no intention of reversing itself. Duke University sociologist, Lynn Smith-Lovin has just released the results of a study of 1,467 adults entitled, "Social Isolation in America". According to Boston Globe columnist Ellen Goodman, the study revealed that 25% of Americans say they have no one to talk to about, "important matters". This wasn't even the most, "startling fact," of the study. Goodman writes, "The study is a replica of one done 20 years ago. In only two decades, from 1985-2004, the number of people who have no one to talk to has doubled."

Goodman notes the significance of the increase when she compares the lackadaisical response of the culture to what would happen if other cultural issues shifted as dramatically: "Imagine income had gone down by a third, or divorce doubled or the medical system halved. We would be setting up commissions and organizing rallies."

Thankfully, the study noted that the nuclear family seems to have survived the first wave of isolation and may have even grown closer as a result of failing secondary relationships like neighbors, work, church and other community relationships. "The greatest loss has been in neighbors and friends who will provide help, support, advice, and connections to a wider world," writes Goodman.

Oddly, Goodman believes the record rise in technology over the last 20 years may bear much of the blame. Cell phones, Blackberries, laptops and the Internet help us communicate with more people, but at a greater distance. They have stolen chunks of time that we used to invest in developing those secondary relationships that are so vital to community. How many of us know the names of the four closest neighbors geographically, let alone the life concerns with which they struggle? Goodman observes, "It's become easier to keep extensive relationships over time and distance but harder to build deeper ones in our back yard."

The tragedy of isolationism is the rising number of people who have no one to talk to. Think about the emotional, physical and mental challenges a "friendless" culture poses. Trust is built upon communication. And trust is essential for a healthy culture. If we're not talking, we're not trusting, and if we're not trusting, we soon live in a culture driven by cynicism, doubt, fear and suspicion. Essentially, we become a society without hope.

This is especially troubling if it plays out in the church and we lose sight of our universal call to reach out beyond the "safe and protective" walls of the physical church building. But the good news for the church is that we can offer hope the culture cannot produce. The challenge for Christ-followers is to build intentional relationships that tear down the walls of isolation with hope and love. The role of Christianity in a "friendless" society is part 2 of this blog to be posted soon.