Monday, March 31, 2008

Take Me Out to the Ballpark


The hot stove league is over and the crowds are gathering today for baseball's annual opening day. From Chicago to Cincy, MLB fans will gather to cheer for that first pitch as America's game begins another season. The Nationals and Braves kicked off last night in Washington's new mega-ballpark complete with President Bush throwing out the first pitch. The Nationals beat the Braves 3-2.

There are 14 games on tap today and people from Philly, Chicago, Cleveland, Cincy and NYC will be figuring out ways to tell the boss they won't be in the office after 1pm. Yankee fans will begin the final season at the house that Ruth built as they look toward their own new ballpark. The first opening day at Yankee Stadium was in 1923 and if there's any doubt that the steroid scandal has hurt baseball, how about the fact that the Yankees have already sold 4 million tickets for the last season in the old house!

Opening Day is like a passage rite of Spring. If you aren't a baseball fan you won't get it. If you're a golfer just think of Master's week as the launch pad for the heat of the PGA tour. College basketball fans can compare it to Midnight Madness when the season kicks off before Thanksgiving, and college football fans can conjure up images of their first tailgating weekend. Chicago, Cincinnati and Cleveland fans will put on their long underwear and gloves to cheer on their respective teams. The hotdog and Polish sausage vendors will crank up the steam and yes, the taps will be flowing. So here we go baseball fans get ready for the annual home plate cry: "Play Ball!"

Sunday, March 23, 2008

He Is Not Here. He is RISEN!

He is not here, He is risen! Including the words of the Apostle Paul, this side of the cross I believe these are the most profound words ever spoken! Don't let your Easter celebration last for only a day. Relish it, walk in it, live it the next 364. Share the hope of Easter everywhere you go. Let's share the hope of Easter by listening, acting, holding, sharing, and serving others!

I'm taking a blog break this week and enjoying some time alone with my bride as we enjoy a "delayed" 25th anniversary celebration.

Friday, March 21, 2008

Who Was This Man?


I've never claimed to be a poet, but here's an attempt to honor God on Good Friday.

The wind howls the world yells
Time has stopped and we see Him
Bloody, battered and broken
Lifeless limbs nailed to a tree

Who was this man?
What was his crime?
What have we done?
Was this God’s Son?

Barely inhaling, broken breath
Between the gasps
A cry from the heart:
“It is finished.”

Darkness and stillness invade
The earth shakes
A curtain is torn
Death’s sting has won this day

Who was this man?
What was his crime?
What have we done?
Was this God’s Son?

His mother’s cry echoes from the hill
Where are the others?
Where have they gone?
It’s as if time is standing still

No one understands, no one knows
Political expectations have gone unfulfilled
Is this the end?
Wasn’t there supposed to be more?

Who was this man?
What was his crime?
What have we done?
Was this God’s Son?

A soldier looks up, a pagan before
The followers have fled
The soldier knows, He gets it, He believes,
“Surely this man was God’s Son.”

Tuesday, March 18, 2008

Anything But Feet Lord!


Why feet Lord? Why did you choose to wash the feet of your disciples? Anything but feet Lord! You see I hate feet. Some people don't like ears especially as we get older and they seem to get bigger. But I just don't like feet. I shared that one Sunday with our community of faith while teaching. Our people have such high mercy gifts that the next Sunday they all showed up in sandals, Crocs and other open-toed shoes. Now that's just not right! :)

Thursday we will be washing feet during our Maundy Thursday worship service. Maundy Thursday, also called Holy Thursday, is a service to commemorate Jesus' Last Supper and the beginning of our observance and remembrance of the Lord's Supper, or communion. The word Maundy comes from the Latin mandatum, which means "commandment." At the Last Supper, Jesus gave the disciples a new commandment to love one another as he had loved them (John 13:34). To show them how much he loved them he washed their feet. On Maundy Thursday many Christians practice foot washing as they remember Jesus' example of washing the disciples' feet after the Last Supper in John 13.

Foot washing was reserved for servants. It was considered the least of tasks. Dirty, smelly, filthy feet covered in dust. the people walked everywhere they went so feet were like modern day tires on dirt roads. They picked up everything. Foot washing conveys submission and humility. This is how Jesus loves. He wanted to show the disciples the extent of His love and nothing was too low for Him. Imagine having your feet washed by the King of Glory!

I'd rather clean someone's toilet than wash their feet, but Jesus chose feet. He knew exactly what He was doing and what He was calling His followers to do. How can I truly be a practicing member of a community of unconditional love if I can't wash feet? So Thursday at Mosaic as part of our Maundy Thursday worship we will wash feet after communion. It's not about us either. It's a reminder that our Savior not only came to suffer on our behalf, but He serves us as well.

In seminary during Holy Week the faculty practiced this ancient form of worship during Holy Week. It made an incredible impression on me. Godly men and women with PhD's washed my feet. Men and women of profound faith and theology who led us in the classrooms were also showing us that nothing was beneath them. They became servants. It was so humbling to have people I admired, respected and followed, wash my feet. How much more significant that first foot washing during Passover must have been. So Thursday as we break the bread and share the cup, we will wash feet and remember. The march to Friday continues.

Thursday, March 13, 2008

Passion Week


Holy Week begins this Sunday, Palm Sunday. It is a week that is unmistakably Christian because it is rooted in the Passion of Jesus Christ. For Christ-followers this week is about far more than the sale of annuals at the local big box store and chocolate Easter bunnies. It's the week we follow, remember, observe, and celebrate the sacrificial act of Jesus that ushered in God's grace for EVERYONE who believes.

Mark 11:1-11 records the triumphal entry of Jesus into Jerusalem on a donkey during Passover at the beginning of His final week as God (in Eugene Peterson's words), "with skin on." The man with the donkey has always intrigued me. How did he know Jesus wanted his donkey? Was he expecting the disciples? When they asked him to use the donkey for the Lord did he question them, did he ask for a donkey deposit, or to see their ID? Scripture says he gave them the donkey for Jesus to use. Max Lucado devoted an entire chapter in one of his books to the guy with the donkey. Lucado says that when he gets to heaven he wants to meet the guy with the donkey because he has some questions for him:

Did you know? Did you have any idea that your generosity would be used for such a noble purpose? Did it ever occur to you that God was going to ride your donkey? Were you aware that all four gospel writers would tell your story? Did it ever cross your mind that a couple of millenniums later, a curious preacher in South Texas would be pondering your plight late at night?

Lucado goes on to remind each of us that we all have a "donkey" which Christ can use: All of us have a donkey. You and I each have something in our lives, which, if given back to God, could, like the donkey, move Jesus and His story further down the road.

As we move through this week and reflect on the cost of our salvation let's all take stock of our lives, resources, possessions and abilities. Let's comb through our life story, search the cupboards of our souls and ask God what we have that He can use to accomplish His purposes. As we gather for worship this weekend let us sing the Hallel as people who know the "rest of the story" and really have something to proclaim:

"Hosanna!
BLESSED IS HE WHO COMES IN THE NAME OF THE LORD;
Blessed is the coming kingdom of our father David;
Hosanna in the highest!
"

Come Lord, Jesus! Come quickly!

Saturday, March 08, 2008

Lessons Learned In Snow Storm


My speaking engagement at an annual youth retreat in west Kentucky was scrubbed due to a major snowstorm that hit the mid-south and midwest. It's the first time in 18 years the event has been scrubbed. So we're going to drop back, punt and reschedule. It's frustrating to fly into some place prepared to lead only to have it cancelled by circumstances beyond your control. So what are the lessons?

1. Storms never take God by surprise.

2. Undivided time with old friends is precious, priceless and so necessary.

3. Laughing til it hurts is an absolute stress buster.

4. You can play golf in 35 degrees and 10-15 mph winds, but you better have lots of UnderArmor.

5. There's a reason for having to chill for four days and someday it will be revealed.

6. Shoveling the driveways (without their knowledge) of two elderly women who aren't home is so much fun.

7. Always buy top quality boots.

8. Getting to attend the musical of your surrogate middle school son is priceless.

9. It's amazing how you pick right up with old friends like you've never missed a day together.

10. You get to come back and try again when the weather is warmer. Some things are worth the wait.

Monday, March 03, 2008

25 Years & She's Still Got Great Legs!


This week my wife, Teri and I celebrate 25 years of marriage! That's a long time. While we've got friends and family who have been married much longer, we are highly aware that our marital tenure is still the exception in these days of disposable marriages. Friends and family members know that my wife has only made it this long because so many people have faithfully prayed for her all these years!

I can close my eyes right now and see that strawberry blonde, thin, scared college kid getting up the courage to ask out that beautiful blonde with great legs the summer after their freshman year in college. Both of those kids were working multiple jobs to pay for school and met through those summer jobs. She was a waitress at night and worked a retail job during the day. He tossed pizzas across the street from her restaurant and worked at the college radio station. Man that guy sure drank a ton of coffee after his shift just to be around her! Long story short: It took about six times of asking before she finally relented and said yes!

I remember being so intimidated and scared after our first date that I froze in her driveway and didn't even open the door for her, or walk her to the door! Yes, I was raised better and knew better. It was totally unlike me, but I was just soooooooo nervous because she was so pretty. To this day, she still makes my heart jump! We laugh now at the story of how her mother thought I was a different guy when we went out on our second or third date because she didn't even recognize me from the first time we met. Boy did I leave a lasting impression!

These 25 years have not been without their challenges. Yes, for both of us, but if I take an honest gut check, I would have to say that I've been responsible for more of those challenges than her! She is my hero. I don't say it enough. Keep in mind that vocationally, I'm not the same guy she married! Imagine having your spouse come home after nearly seven years of marriage and announce that God had spoken and called them to pastoral ministry, which would necessitate giving up a comfortable life in the burbs and a successful career in order to move to another state to go to seminary and live on a lot, lot less. Not only did she do it, she did it with unwavering support, enthusiasm and commitment. God is still smiling at her faithful prayer life because they both knew it before I did! I'd be lying if I said that was the last sacrifice she had to make due to pastoral ministry. Spouses of those in pastoral ministry make significant personal sacrifices that often go unnoticed and unappreciated by the average person. I'm grateful for the sacrifices she's made over the years. It's a debt I can never repay.

If you sat down and wrote out the qualities you would want in a spouse, Teri would fulfill all of them. At heart she's an encourager, but has a very pragmatic side that does not deny reality. She is a hard worker with not one lazy bone in her body. She has an extraordinary prayer life. She is driven and doesn't let me drown in paralyzing pity parties. She is a great listener and has a delightful sense of humor. She knows when to push, when to hold, when to listen, when to counsel, and when to just be there. She is a better parent than me, always has been. And while neither of us think we have the "perfect" children (we know they are human), she has always been a mother who displays a profound devotion to her children. She is smart and gets the numbers game, which was not in my gene pool. She cares deeply about hurting, broken and wounded people but has a low tolerance for laziness, or those who will not accept personal responsibility for their decisions. While she is human, she has one slight flaw, she is too hard on herself. And if she says she's going to do something it gets done. When she slips her hand into mine whenever we're together somewhere and a prayer is offered, it's like God saying to me, "I've sent her to you, she's on loan and everything is going to be okay, still your anxious heart, and find rest for your weary soul in her touch."

A few years ago we were participating in a marriage enrichment weekend. I remember one couple who refused to be part of the renewal of vows. His comment, "I said them once, they don't need to be said again," floored me. I thought to myself how tragic. If my wife asked me to repeat them every single day, I would. Maybe more couples need to do that and remember exactly what they promised God and each other.

I would say more, but this is a public blog so I'll save those comments for private on our "25th" get away in a few months. I can't take credit for it, but a line Jack Nicholson said to Helen Hunt in the movie, "As Good As It Gets" says it all: "You make me want to be a better man." She does! I love you babe, thanks for the best 25 of my life. Lord, I am of all men most blessed, and if you allow it, I'm in for another 25!