Thursday, December 29, 2011
The Christmas Pig
Friday, December 23, 2011
Reconciliation
Reconciliation is difficult to practice in a self-absorbed, self-consumed and self-important culture. It is counter-cultural. It means I don’t get to hold on to my anger, or the desire to punish someone for being wronged/hurt. It can also mean that despite my actions I don’t get what I deserve.
It’s difficult to practice because it requires humility, unconditional love, and mercy. When we have been wronged, hurt, betrayed, wounded, or, disappointed it is the last thing on our mind. Heck, when people disagree with us, or hold a minority view with which we disagree, we are often ready to dismiss them simply because they hold a different view. Forget trying to even understand, or reconcile our differences.
At the heart of reconciliation is the idea of restoration. Restoring those who have been the source of pain is not very popular in a society that’s always looking out for #1. We restore, or “make things right”. Whether we are seeking reconciliation, or being asked to reconcile with someone the response isn’t optional for Christ-followers. We are the beneficiaries of heaven’s reconciliatory work through Christ:
10 For if while we were enemies we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, now that we are reconciled, shall we be saved by his life. (Rom. 5:10)
20 and through him to reconcile to himself all things, whether on earth or in heaven, making peace by the blood of his cross.
21 And you, who once were alienated and hostile in mind, doing evil deeds, 22 he has now reconciled in his body of flesh by his death, in order to present you holy and blameless and above reproach before him, (Col. 1:20-21)
When we said, “Yes!” to Jesus we acknowledged His reconciling work between God and us, and we accepted the call to go and do likewise. We who are “in Christ” have no excuse from the personal responsibility to be reconciler’s in the world:
18 All this is from God, who through Christ reconciled us to himself and gave us the ministry of reconciliation; 19 that is, in Christ God was reconciling the world to himself, not counting their trespasses against them, and entrusting to us the message of reconciliation. 20 Therefore, we are ambassadors for Christ, God making his appeal through us. We implore you on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God. 21 For our sake he made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God. (2 Cor. 5:18ff)
Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you. (Ephesians 4:32)
Reconciliation seems to come hardest within marriages, family, work and friends. Maybe it’s because those are among our most intimate relationships and we know so much about each other. However, if you stop and think about it that’s exactly where reconciliation ought to begin. The practice of unconditional love and forgiveness should be present within marriage and family following the pattern of Christ’s reconciling work with the church (Eph. 5) and thereby becoming the foundational model for the rest of our relationships.
Next to Holy Week, Christmas should press all of us who call Christ, "Lord," into loving others unconditionally simply and only because that's what God has done for us through Christ. And to think it all began with the birth of a baby in a borrowed feeding trough. Now that’s preposterous! And so is reconciliation in a 21st century world. Imagine what our world and relationships would look like if we really practiced the reconciliation we so desperately need and desire from God in Christ with others? It would be a game-changer! Thanks be to God for His gift of reconciliation through the babe of Bethlehem. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
Saturday, December 17, 2011
Friday, December 16, 2011
Nativity Reflections & 21st Century Ponderings
Saturday, December 10, 2011
No Mr. Holloway You Are Student Athletes!
College basketball showed it's ugly side Saturday in Cincinnati in the annual grudge match between U.C. and Xavier. Xavier was blowing out the Bearcats and in the final seconds things turned very ugly. Two Xavier players, Dezmine Wells and star player, Tu Holloway shoved Bearcat's player Ge'Lawn Guyn to the floor. That prompted a fight and bench clearing that ended with officials calling the game with time left on the clock. NJ Star-Ledger Sportswriter Brendan Prunty paints the picture:
In the ensuing melee, several players on both sides were seen swinging punches as the benches cleared. Television replays showed Cincinnati center Yancy Gates punch Xavier's Kenny Frease in the face and take a swing at another player who had come off of the Musketeers' bench.
After being struck, Frease staggered to the floor only to come up bleeding heavily from the left side of his face.
"That’s what you’re going to see from Xavier and Cincinnati," Holloway said after the game. "We got disrespected a little bit before the game, guys calling us out. We’re a tougher team. We’re grown men over here. We’ve got a whole bunch of gangsters in the locker room—not thugs, but tough guys on the court. And we went out there and zipped them up at the end of the game."Thursday, December 08, 2011
I Believe I Failed Her
Thursday, December 01, 2011
God Help Her!
Punitive Silence
Monday, November 28, 2011
Old Friends
Thursday, November 17, 2011
William Shatner's "Deep Fryer Love"
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Tuesday, November 15, 2011
Turning 50
- My children can text faster than I can type on a keyboard or talk.
- I am not nearly as multi-task oriented as I think I am. Most 12-year olds have me beat.
- Video posts to this blog from You Tube can be risky cause I don't know how to keep it from going to You Tube's home page after the video, which at times has questionable content. Oh yeah, I asked a late 20-something how to change the setting to restrict that content and she had no idea so I don't feel so old. If you do let me know!
- Why would anyone think their daily life is worth Tweeting? Really, it's that important?
- Why would anyone think someone else's Tweets are worth reading? Lady Gaga has over 15 million Twitter followers per Google. Are you kidding me?
- I have never been on Face Book and have no idea how to do it, but I sure got a lot of invites to be somebody's friend. It's nothing personal, but all my invites to FB go into my SPAM folder.
- I had a "Linked In" account years ago, before it was cool, now I'm ready to take mine down cause I can't keep up with all the solicitations to be someone's contact, or add them to my list. Plus, just because you know, or are linked to someone on my list doesn't mean I want to be to linked to you. Nothing personal BTW.
- I am grateful to God that my kids are adults cause I'm not sure I could handle the technical wave of the next generation and 6-year old's with working cell phones.
- I have actually mastered hands-free calling and the BlueTooth system in both of our cars! Yes, it's much safer than holding a cell phone in your hand while driving.
- I long for the days before cell phones. Oh how I miss the days when the person being right in front of you was the most important at the moment and not a beep, ringtone, etc., of an email, text, or voice-mail message to interrupt. I'm really debating going back to a beeper!
Thursday, November 10, 2011
Doing the Right Thing!
One of the basic underpinnings of human morality is that we all have an obligation to protect those who cannot protect themselves. If I leave a restaurant and see a woman being assaulted in the parking lot, I have a moral duty to intervene on her behalf. If I wait to call the police, or go back inside and call someone else, I have forsaken a basic tenet of human morality and character. And before you say, “ What if they have a gun?” think about the victim. It could be my wife, daughter, sister, etc., and God forbid that would ever happen, but I would hope that someone in that situation would intervene on their behalf. In many states it's called the Good Samaritan law.
I knew of this moral obligation well before I was the age of the graduate assistant who stated in grand jury testimony that he witnessed the alleged crime at Penn State. He is now an assistant coach. I knew this basic principle as a 16-year old kid. If I knew it then, how could a graduate assistant in his early 20’s not know what is the right thing to do in regard to an innocent child and felonious behavior?
The tragedy at Penn State University surrounding the allegations of sexual abuse by a former assistant coach against innocent boys is depraved at best. As a result of one man’s purported repeated sickening actions, a legendary football coach, an athletic director, another administrator and a university president have lost their jobs. And given what little we now know, I believe this was the right call, albeit too late in my personal opinion.
Most disturbing is the grand jury testimony cited by Mike and Mike where Paterno acknowledged, in his words, that “fondling and sexual activity” had taken place per the then graduate assistant who reported it to the head coach. This is in a legal binding document, not hearsay. Hello!!!! What part of that in regard to an adult and a minor is not illegal? What part of that doesn’t make you want to physically grab your friend and former coaching colleague and haul his butt before authorities? What part of that would allow you to let that person return not once, but several times to your practice facility and have further access to young people?
The victims and their families can take small consolation in the fact that someone has finally taken a step to do the right thing regardless of media spin, public opinion and the reputation of a storied athletic program. This goes way beyond trying to protect the reputation of a university or athletic program. It goes to the heart of institutional oversight and organizational culture. It is about character.
Ga. State Head Coach and former ESPN analyst Bill Curry is a friend of Joe Paterno and had these comments on ESPN’s Mike and Mike show this morning:
Our sacred trust as mentors, coaches, and parents is the children and anything that causes such horror where they are concerned has always been more than I can bear. And to think of the betrayal that is involved in this case…I do know and love Joe Paterno, we’re not like brothers, but we are good friends, I know this, whatever he perceived the right thing to do whenever he learned what he knew, he thought it was the right thing….In the coaching profession you approach greatness by always taking responsibility. Joe has taken responsibility for his actions when he said, “I should’ve done more.” That doesn’t make it okay and help the victims but it means he is being a man about it.
Somewhere, somehow, something very basic broke down. This is not purported poor behavior. This is a felony! A felony! You are entitled to your opinion, but I cannot believe that simply informing your superior satisfies your moral duty. The bar is even higher for those of us who profess to be Christ-followers. James offers this counsel to all believers in this regard: Religion that is pure and undefiled before God, the Father, is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained from the world.
Today, my thoughts and prayers are with the victims and their families. They need to be the priority at every turn in this situation now. Their health, welfare, well-being and future IS the single most important issue. And the current players who have nothing to do with this entire mess are second. They came to PSU to play football.
Let us pray for healing and lest any of us think too highly of ourselves, or too lightly of our own imperfections we must keep in mind that there but for the grace of God go any of us, or our favorite school, churches, coaches, etc. And we must remember, God did not fail in this mess, man did! May God have mercy on us all and may the victims and their families be drenched in His comfort.
Tuesday, November 08, 2011
Grateful for Our Vets!
Saturday, November 05, 2011
Monday, October 31, 2011
"In Sickness and In Health"
Monday, October 24, 2011
Stand Up To Cancer
Toast To God's Glory!
Thursday, October 20, 2011
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
Randoms: PET Scan & Pastor Appreciation Blog
Tomorrow is my mid-treatment PET scan. PET stands for positron emission tomography. A PET allows doctors to see how the organs and tissues inside our bodies are working. The PET also helps doctors assess, or analyze how treatment, like chemo, is working.
A PET is a form of nuclear medicine. A nurse or tech injects you with a tracer (radioactive chemical) which travels through the body and is absorbed by the tissues and organs being examined. The PET gives my doctors a 3-dimensional picture and will help my oncologist determine the next step of my treatment plan. Regardless of my PET results one thing is constant and sure: God is glorious and worthy of our praise!
Dr. Michael Catt is pastor of Sherwood Baptist Church, Albany, Georgia. The name of the church may sound familiar because they produced the movies, "Facing the Giants," "Fireproof", "Flywheel", and "Courageous". As a PK and pastor I must admit that his latest blog on Pastor Appreciation is on target and humorous. Most interesting was his admission that the church lost 800 members during his first 10 years! So glad leadership were more focused on the big picture of what was happening in their church! Click the link below to catch his blog:
http://michaelcatt.com/2011/10/pastor-appreciation/
Friday, October 14, 2011
To Be Known, Touched and Loved
Jesus knew the value of touch, presence and love. He practiced it regularly:
- Mark 1:40-45 (the leper)
- Matthew 9:28 (the blind)
- Mark 7:33 (the deaf mute)
- Matthew 8:15 (Peter's mother-in-law)
- Matthew 17:6-8 (the disciples at the Transfiguration)
- Simply Sit with them
- Pray over them (and according to James 5 anoint and pray over them)
- Touch them (hug, pat on the hand or back)
- Send a card, email, text, or phone call but back it up with your presence (don't wait to see if they feel like it, there's some things you just do because it's the right thing to do!)
- Take a meal to them
- Eat with them
- Tell them you love them in words and deeds
Touch someone today in Jesus name!
Monday, October 10, 2011
50/50 or Hope?
This weekend we saw the movie, "50/50". The comedy is based on the true story about a pair of 20-something's who've known each other since high school and one of them is diagnosed with a rare form of cancer. Let me be clear. The movie is rated "R". The humor and language is at times very crude. If you're uptight about language don't go see it and don't think I'm making an endorsement for such language, or content. However, if you decide to go I'm asking you to dig beyond the language and go to the heart of the story. As the movie progresses a reality unfolds that I'm not sure you can fully appreciate unless you, or someone close to you has been engaged in the cancer fight.
I laughed and cried throughout the film because I have experienced many of the reactions and situations of the guy with cancer in the movie. From the "freeze frame" moment when you are told you have cancer by the doctor; to the outlandish things people who don't know what to say, or do, say to you; to the frustration of having your life consumed by a disease; to poignant moments that reveal the depth of the struggle to be positive and realistic despite the battle with side effects; and the tender moments when you realize that the love of family and friends is the most powerful earthly force in the cancer battle.
While I enjoyed the film there was one thing missing for me in terms of my personal fight with this disease. It was the absence of faith, or even more so, hope in God. The main character was able to pull through by sheer will, love of family, friends and humor. I'm not that strong! I wish I was, but if I'm going to be honest I have to admit that I've only made it this far because of my faith and relationship with Jesus Christ, and that's more a tribute to Him than me. I am deeply flawed and was BEFORE cancer. I would consider myself a fairly strong person, but I am too weak to battle this on my own. I need someone stronger to cling to. I need Jesus. I'm not picking apart the movie. I'm simply saying that I desperately need someone/something bigger than a good attitude, positive thinking, and sense of humor to face this disease. I need someone bigger than cancer itself to help me navigate the choppy emotional and physical waters of cancer. I need Jesus!
I guess 50/50 is decent odds without Christ, but we are ALL terminal. Life with Jesus not only extends the survival rate beyond death, but it provides hope in the middle of today's battle whether it's cancer, divorce, job loss, or something else. It's a hope rooted in unconditional love that extends beyond the grave:
35 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or danger, or sword? 36 As it is written,
“For your sake we are being killed all the day long; we are regarded as sheep to be slaughtered.”
37 No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. 38 For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, 39 nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. (Romans 8:35-39)
Tuesday, October 04, 2011
Liv's Laugh and Love
Thursday, September 29, 2011
The ACS Movement for More Birthdays
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
The Divine Healer
Jesus words of comfort in Matthew 11 are at the base of the statue:
"COME unto ME All Ye That Are Weary And Heavy Laden And I Will Give You REST"
Oh how I need that in my life and not just during a health battle. I run to Him when I'm tired, hurting, broken, wounded, frustrated, seeking forgiveness, and desiring peace. These words remind all of us who follow Christ that THE Healer stands ready to hold, comfort, heal and help all of those who are weighed down by trouble, pain, sickness, or loss. This brings to mind a word of fulfilled prophecy about Christ found in Isaiah 53:
But he was pierced for our transgressions,
he was crushed for our iniquities;
the punishment that brought us peace was on him,
and by his wounds we are healed. {emphasis mine}
Everyone needs the Healer!
Click here (John Hopkins Hospital) for the full scoop on the statue from the John Hopkins' website.
Saturday, September 24, 2011
Hold Me Jesus
Hold Me Jesus by Rich Mullins
Well, sometimes my life
Just don't make sense at all
When the mountains look so big
And my faith just seems so small
CHORUS:
So hold me Jesus, 'cause I'm shaking like a leaf
You have been King of my glory
Won't You be my Prince of Peace
And I wake up in the night and feel the dark
It's so hot inside my soul
I swear there must be blisters on my heart
CHORUS
Surrender don't come natural to me
I'd rather fight You for something
I don't really want
Than to take what You give that I need
And I've beat my head against so many walls
Now I'm falling down, I'm falling on my knees
And this Salvation Army band
Is playing this hymn
And Your grace rings out so deep
It makes my resistance seem so thin
CHORUS
You have been King of my glory
Won't You be my Prince of Peace
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
The Chemo Fog/Effect
You can wake up without nausea, leg cramps, mouth sores, tingling/numb hands and toes thinking you've got the day by the horns and suddenly realize you are having trouble finding specific words to complete a sentence. And you know the word, but you just can't form it in your brain. It's called Chemo Brain. Or, you battle mouth sores before bed and wake the next morning feeling pretty good only to discover that after a shower and getting dressed you are completely wiped out and you have killer reflux that won't go away despite the best reflux meds! You realize the toxic goo causing the mouth sores is now causing them in your gut! My point is that just when you think you've got a handle on your body something else happens.
Work can be a real challenge because at times you have trouble concentrating and the latest side effects are not very helpful in that department either. Twice this week I've had the best intentions to stay with it in my office, but have had to leave. Several times I've had these (don't laugh I'm not any more nuts than I was before chemo!) out of body experiences-----yes, something just doesn't feel quite right and you know you are not at 100%. It's like there's a fog over your body, but you can't explain it. I'm not talking about being unable to drive, or walk. And no, I don't see visions, or speak Yugoslavian, or suddenly have the ability to sing opera, but something just isn't quite right and no matter how hard you try you can't seem to make it better. It's okay because tomorrow there will be a different side effect as we all hang on to that week right before a chemo cycle when we are finally feeling a little normal, our counts are back up and we're about to go down that awful treatment road one more time!
Clinging to Jesus becomes even more important, vital and necessary with each cycle of treatment.
Thursday, September 15, 2011
My People
Time in the chair is passed with loved ones and close friends stopping by to sit awhile, crossword puzzles, catching up on email, some watch DVD's, a lot of reading is done and some serious Ipod listening happens. Laughter is the ultimate medicine as you discuss the humorous side of cancer, chemo and it's side effects with fellow patients.
As the 6-hour drip party passes the second hour, the laughter between a group of us is abruptly halted by a harsh reminder that while this disease and its treatment can't steal love and joy, it does hammer you physically. A woman (not receiving treatment that day) is escorted into the lab by one of the caring front desk assistants as the woman is vomiting into her hands and nurses race to get a tray for her. I watch as my nurse leaps from doing something else and lovingly, tenderly puts her arm around the patient and walks her into a private area with a hospital bed and draws the curtain. After a couple of hours, some fluids and observation her husband is able to take her out with a wheelchair. She manages a faint smile as we cheer her on in total empathy.
I've learned that humor/laughter is an absolute must for those battling cancer and their family. A few, and I mean very few patients I've met have no sense of humor, or the ability to laugh in the middle of all of this. But, everyone has to process it in their own way and there's no one right way to cope. However, the sober reminder that this is a battle with serious side effects and symptoms is always lurking, like the woman escorted into the lab vomiting.
I guarantee she lost NO dignity among us as tough as vomiting in public can be. She is brave to us another fighter in the battle. She was a trooper and all of us have been there. She is another anonymous hero to me. I look around at these beautiful bald, wig and ballcap-covered heads and smile. I say silently to God, "Lord, these are my people! Heal, protect, comfort and encourage them with your grace. And for those battling this without Your presence help me to reveal You to them in gentle love when the opportunity arises. Amen."
Every life is terminal. And we are ALL, regardless of our health one day closer to seeing Jesus!
Monday, September 12, 2011
Thursday, September 08, 2011
Remember The Past With An Eye on the Future
The act of terror on American soil touched every American in some way. One of my favorite images following that dark day of terror was September 15th (only 4 days after the tragedy) when members of Congress on both sides of the aisles joined together and sang God Bless America on the steps of the Capitol. I remember thinking at that time, "perhaps our unity and purpose really is greater than any difference we have." From tornadoes, to hurricanes, war, heinous community crimes, or specific social injustices, Americans have an incredible ability to pull together and help each other in the face of such tragedies. I'm still naive enough to believe that the American people are the greatest resource of our country!
Today, our country seems so divided over politics and the economy. The vitriol and finger-pointing coming from Washington to the campaign trail is sad in light of how we responded as a united people on 911 and to support the Gulf region after Katrina, our military in Iraq and Afghanistan and more recently, the devastating 2011 southern tornadoes.
Some may say it takes a tragedy to bring Americans together, but I don't buy it. While tragedy may ratchet up our awareness/urgency, I think it reminds us how precious life is and how blessed we are as a people and I believe our unity runs deeper than our political party affiliation. Sure we have honest differences and ideas about the best way for our country to proceed for the future, but we are in this together!
I think the church forgets this as well. Sometimes we get set on our particular concern/agenda, or area of ministry at the exclusion of the big picture and God's glory. The cause of Christ is ill-served by division and disunity. Worship ceases where there is division (I did not say differences).
When we remember 911 we honor the thousands of victims and heroes of that dark day. We remember that even the worst imaginable attack on a sovereign nation can't withstand a nation at prayer and countless acts of love, charity, unity, hard work and commitment.
This weekend let's remember 911, but let's do it with an eye on the future and with a unity of purpose that is so powerful it stifles any attempts to bring harm to innocent people both at home and abroad! A united nation is a formidable opponent to evil and terror because it rises out of the ashes of destruction.
Oh yeah, for those who are Christ-followers remember that Jesus said we are to be known by our love for one another, even when we disagree. I also believe that a united church (all Christ-followers) is indeed the most formidable opponent to the evil one and terror because at the end of the day love for one another lives beyond destruction.
Wednesday, September 07, 2011
Side Effects I'd Like to Have
I've had the privilege of experiencing the following common side effects, but I'm grateful they haven't been simultaneous, or continuous.
Here are some of the common side effects for my particular treatment, R-CHOP:
- Numbness/tingling/loss of feeling in hands and toes
- Hair loss
- Dry-mouth, Mouth and throat sores
- Nausea
- Cold, Sinus or Flu-like symptoms
- Constipation
- Risk for infection (neutropenia) due to low cell/blood counts
- Chemo brain (memory loss, focus issues, trouble finding the right word, etc.
- Bone pain (for those on Neulasta to boost blood cell production)
- Nosebleeds
It occurred to me that some of us would like some alternative side effects instead of the common ones previously listed. So here's some side effects I'm hoping to develop in no particular order:
- Six-pack abs
- A head of thick and full black hair
- The ability to dunk a basketball
- Genius IQ
- Fluent in a second language without studying
- Plumbing and HVAC skills
- 7 strokes off my golf game
Thursday, September 01, 2011
Happy Birthday Dad
I could fill this blog with attributes and stories about my Dad and his character, integrity, humility, and love.
As I look back on my 49 years of Dad's 80, I smile. Yes, a smile is what comes to mind first and foremost. Dad has always had an extraordinary sense of humor, even in the middle of pain. His trademark smile is distinct. His eyes twinkle when he's about to tell a joke and you just know he is getting tickled. He sees humor everywhere and he isn't afraid to laugh at himself.
This weekend we will spend time as a family remembering and recalling special times as a family and I guarantee we will laugh often. As we gather together this weekend we will embrace the wisdom writer's truth: "A cheerful heart is good medicine."
Happy birthday Dad!
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
You Oughta Try....
"So, have you ever heard of colloidal silver? My aunt takes it and it has removed all her age spots! You should look into it. It might be worth checking out."
It's as if to say without actually saying, "Hey, maybe you should try this junk on your cancer." Others are far more blatant in promoting their "all natural" suggestion as a cancer treatment, or cure. Even more absurd is the fact that most of the people who pass this Internet medicinal lore along don't partake of the very thing they are recommending you put in your body, LOL!
Never mind the total lack of credible medical research on the natural cure being promoted, or the fact that if one of them could actually cure cancer big Pharma, or a major cancer research facility would have already snagged it up. It's like this elusive cure has been hiding in the shadows and no one knows about it except for a faithful remnant of people who recommend it to their cancer-stricken friends and family. Think about it. Seriously, really, think about it!
So to date here are the cures or "cancer reducing" diets or supplements people have passed on to me of which several also happen to be on the urban myth fact checking site, www.snopes.com
- Coffee
- Lemons
- Colloidal Silver
- Wheatgrass
- Lemongrass
- Asparagus
- Vinegar
So here's a suggestion from someone who has cancer. Before you send it, or recommend it to someone else you try the suggested diet subsidy, "natural/organic" treatment, or cure yourself for 6 months followed by a comprehensive medical exam and labs to determine its legitimacy.
If you have happened to pass one of these along to me thanks for your intent to help. Don't take this personally, but try to put yourself in our shoes. I'm just asking you to exercise the same kind of wisdom and restraint ALL of us should before passing anything on to someone else whether it's by text, Internet, Twitter, Facebook, etc. Do your homework because you can rest assured that those of us who have cancer are learning and reading everything we can about our particular brand of cancer. My oncologist at Wake Cancer Center said I needed to be prepared for this and that people would come out of the woodwork offering me the most outlandish cures, or diets for cancer. I laughed when she said it and had no idea the depth of truth she was speaking. Man, she absolutely nailed it! Oh yeah, she and my Greenville oncologist happen to have advanced degrees and experience in the treatment, cure and management of cancer.
Okay, so I saved the best for last. Someone actually emailed me a diet that "prevents" cancer once they knew I was diagnosed with cancer, LOL! So if you have cancer already how does a preventative cancer diet work? You just gotta laugh, it is indeed the best medicine.
Monday, August 29, 2011
Sea Sickness Feeling
Yesterday I was overcome with the love of our church family as I returned for the first time since my surgery in late July and my lymphoma diagnosis. I can't express the depth of our gratitude for the love these saints and sinners have lavished on us. Meals, cards, notes, texts, phone calls, driving me to chemo and sitting with me during the drip, and much more have been the tangible hands and feet of Jesus! I remain, overwhelmed, grateful, humble and broken. Labs on Thursday should give us a good idea where my blood counts are after last week's first round.
Thursday, August 25, 2011
Bald Guy Update
Managed the Rituxan without having to stop the infusion yesterday (apparently it's a big deal that I didn't have to stop), but I made up for it once home as I had the the typical flu-like symptoms (chills, fever, headache). Felt okay this morning so we were all systems go for the C-H-O-P part of the R-CHOP regimen. It took about 4 hours. In September for my second cycle I will get it all in one day, whoopee. Tomorrow I go for a blood cell boosting shot that actually hurts the bones because it is a inflammatory that helps the bones produce bone marrow and ultimately blood. This is important because the higher the cell count the better able you are to fight off, or battle potential infections. Hopefully the alopecia (hair loss) will kick in soon because I have already had to shave my head twice since the initial shaving! Funny, when I had thinning hair I couldn't grow hair and now that I'm trying to keep it off my head I can't, lol.
Big thanks to my nurse, Lynn! She's from Western MA and has a bulldog I really want to steal. Also thanks to my friends Gladys, and Dan J., who visited me yesterday at the Cancer Center. And Dan C., who not only dropped me off this morning, but stayed for about an hour!
I thought the 100 mg. of prednesone (5 days in a row following treatment days) would have me bouncing off the walls, but so far it's not keeping me awake! Maybe the phenegran is helping with that, ha. I met a couple who are in their second battle with cancer. She beat lymphoma 6 years ago, but was diagnosed a few months ago with breast cancer! Yes, she is one tough cookie and new hero of mine. Today she was wearing what her husband called her "bad girl" wig. I couldn't even tell she had a wig on it looked so good. What a precious couple with a great sense of humor!
CANCER TIP OF THE DAY: Hard candy and mouth lozenges are your friend! Tip #2: If you know someone with cancer don't be afraid and don't avoid them because you don't know what to say. That will backfire and the person with the disease will be wondering what they've done to you to deserve the silence. Even if you don't know what to say just do what my friend Sam says: "Just be there, you don't have to say anything." He's right!
Okay so we'll see how the days that follow go. You hang in there and remember cancer can't steal love, or joy.
Romans 12:12