Have you ever noticed how hard it is for certain words, or phrases to come to us? Think about it. When’s the last time you said to someone:
•I’m sorry
•I was wrong
•It’s my fault
•What can I do to make this right?
•You go first
•I dropped the ball
While these words have grow faint in our culture others seem to be growing:
•I want….
•I won’t bend until she does
•I deserve…..
•He had better apologize
•She is a……
•I hear he has………
•They hurt me…..
Pronouns can help, heal, or hurt:
• I love you
• We hate her
• They are a blessing
• He’s a jerk
• You are amazing
• She is a class act
Words can bless and words can tear down. People with a critical spirit are fluent in poison-tipped words. Humble people use words laced with the love of God. Some words come too easy and others are held hostage by pride and insecurity. I am responsible for my words, but many times my words are irresponsible and lacking in grace. Christ-followers should use words that build up, encourage, support, help and demonstrate humility and grace.
I find it interesting that Jesus’ words in the gospels, even the tough ones bring glory to God and were never self-serving. According to Jesus we had better think twice about the words we use: I tell you, on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak (Matt. 12:36 ESV).
May God help us with every word we speak, or fail to say!
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