Women Who Aren't Mothers But Really Are

There are two women I know who do not have children. Every Mother's Day my thoughts turn to them after thinking about my wife, mother, and mother-in-law. Our family has grown close to both of these women and I know their life stories pretty well. They are strong Christ followers, devoted wives, top notch professionals and among our closest friends.

Every year when Mother's Day week rolls around and we are smothered in cards, flowers, lunches, and countless newspaper and television ads hawking the perfect gift for Mom, I think of them. They don't have children and yet the culture unintentionally reminds them of this every year. I've watched them both and aside from the biological act of childbirth, they are mothers nonetheless.

Both of these women are compassionate and giving in different ways. They touch lives and minister when no one else is looking because they aren't seeking the limelight. They simply care for others. Their compassionate hearts are driven by their love for Christ and His church. Both of these women are sought out by many for their wise counsel and input (motherly advice) on important life decisions. I can't remember an important life decision that Teri and I have made without consulting our mother's just as others do with these two women. They are good listeners, and have a wonderful sense of humor, two things every mother must have. They both love kids and have become surrogate parents, grandparents and mothers through extended family and the children of friends. Perhaps their motherly characteristics come from their own mother's, with whom both were very close. I walked with both of them through the death of their respective Mother's and they not only honored their mother's while living, but continue to honor their memory today.

So as we celebrate Mother's Day this weekend, and heap love on the one who gave us life or honor their memory, let's ask God to bless the women we know, who while they have not given birth to a child, have all the characteristics of a godly mother. If our children were younger and no family was available, I wouldn't hesitate to entrust the future of both of our children to the nurture, care and leadership of these women! So Gladys and Angie, do you want some older kids? Happy Mother's Day to both of you!

P.S. Anna Lou, Donna Marie and Terese Marie God bless your socks off! May He honor your faithfulness and the sacrifice you have made as godly mothers. We owe you a debt we cannot repay. Much Love, Monty